Can you rent closer to work? Have you used the NYTimes rent vs buy calculator to compare? How long do plan to stay in the area?
I personally would not buy a $330k home with only 10% down on a $90k income when I could rent for $1200/mo, but it's entirely what you value and your goals.
My financial criteria for buying a house included:
1) Must pass rent vs. buy calculator test
2) Must work as a rental/meet 1% rule in the event I need/want to move. I plan on staying long-term (min 5 years) since transaction costs are huge, but you never know
3) Must allow me to maintain a minimum 60% savings rate after all expenses are accounted for (mortgage, property taxes, insurance, maintenance, utilities)
Good luck with your decision!