Hi everyone, I'm feeling a bit out of my depth here. My sister has come to me with help getting out of debt, and I'm not sure how to advise her. In broad strokes:
-she lives abroad with her long term partner. He is a small business owner and she is a doula and also helps with the business. The business is just keeping its head above water and she has very little income of her own. They have quasi-combined finances, but in general, I have no idea how their cash flow works and I don't think they do either.
-she has $40k in student loans (about half on IBR with a zero payment, and half private loans in repayment) and $21k in credit card debt
-$8300 of the credit card debt has been charged off and they are offering her a debt settlement of half if she pays within a year, otherwise it will go to collections
-the rest of the credit card debt is on zero interest five year payoff plans, but she must make the minimums to stay in good standing with that plan
-she's upside down on a car back in the states, owes around $4k and it's worth $1k or so
-they are not currently adding to the debt, but they are not getting ahead of it either. I strongly suspect they don't even have the capacity to make minimums consistently over the next year, let along pay off more.
-she is only marginally employable in her current country. She's a former kindergarten teacher, but doesn't have the right combo of classwork and experience to get credentialed in her current country.
-she has two kids who go to school 7-1:30. She could do some paid work during that time if she could find something that she could do from where she is.
-they're both American citizens so authorized to work here in the States
-they're both spendypants by nature, so I suspect there is room to trim by Mustachian standards, but I think sis won't be able to see that unless I make a compelling case
I fully realize this is not my problem to solve, but I'd appreciate some advice on how to approach her options with her. I'm not even totally sure what her options are. Cut expenses, increase income, or declare bankruptcy? I feel like I'm too close to this to be objective.