This is interesting to me. My older sister and her daughter were just visiting, and I was telling the extreme frugality stories about my sister from my youth. But it continued to these awful family Xmas vacations, and on and on. This is a woman who now earns a million a year, admits she has more money than she will ever spend. I've caught her not tipping the taxi driver or restaurants. This weekend she agreed to cover ONE meal - other family members went all out in shopping, planning, cooking their offerings. She went to Whole Foods to pick up her favorite cake and flowers to take to SIL house for dinner, promised to pick up something for lunch. I cooked up some appetizers and asked only that she not pick up pizza (we could make some frozen), sandwich/ hoagie/ sub was fine. She complained my apps were "processed food", whatever that means in her head, didn't find anything she was willing to purchase at Whole Foods (cue: too expensive), and came home with 5 guys burgers. Because that's not processed. Even her daughter was surprised she didn't buy fries with that, just took a huge bag of the free peanuts. Oh, and she was too cheap to buy burgers for everyone, half the folks got one.
I've never had another name for my sister, but the rigidity and rules and stinginess with everyone fits.
I'm not sure why Dr. Ramani annoys you Jennifer.