Hello wise people,
There was a post similar to this a few weeks ago and I realize that this is a very personal decision but I was hoping some of you kind people could help me out. My situation is that I am 34, single, home-owner, and live in HCOL area in Southern California. I'm not intent on staying in SoCal, although my family does live here, and am exploring the possibility of a LCOL move after I get some more equity in my home (bought in late 2008, could probably sell at a profit but would be in a much better place in 5 years as the neighborhood is slowly gentrifying). I don't want kids and I can't imagine getting married so on the plus side I only have to take care of myself but on the negative side I only have my income to contribute. For the past 3 years I've been hovering around $100k income but could probably earn more and I am exploring different ways to make that happen (primarily: job search). I am not by nature frugal and need a lot of improvement in that area but I've taken some positive steps to mustachianism (sold gas-guzzling SUV, started cooking meals, etc...).
Pre-MMM I thought I had to go get an MBA or equivalent Master's (I'm considering Finance or Business Analytics) because at a certain point, employers expect these credentials. Depending on which school and which program I pick, this could set me back $50k - $100k. My monthly mortgage plus taxes plus insurance is about 25% of my gross pay but I owe my parents $250k for the downpayment on the house. I owe about $280k on the mortgage at 3.625% and will not be in a hurry to pay that down. On my 3rd refinance, I had hoped to repay a portion of what I owed my parents by rolling it into the loan but due to several foreclosures in the neighborhood I did not have a LTV high enough and even had to put a few thousand dollars to bring it up! Stupid banks. Anyhow, my parents are fine with not being repaid in a timely fashion but I feel that I owe it and I don't want issues with my younger siblings over this when my parents die. My parents are worth a lot of money and I will inherit a fair amount but I expect them to be around for at least another 20 years. I also owe about $30k in assorted debts so regardless of whether or not I decide to go to school I know that I need to clean that up and save enough to cash flow grad school as I do not want to take out student loans (and I will have to work full time as well).
My quandary is this: it never even occurred to me that retiring early was an option. My parents still work, everybody I know under the age of 70 still works, and so it honestly never occurred to me that I could reduce my consumption and have a different outcome. I have a huge debt load and nothing in savings so I know that I need to take care of this before I consider grad school. I'll probably still study for the GMAT (god I hate that test) and try to take it this year with the intent of attending grad school in 2016. But should I even do this? I have no great love of business- it mildly interests me, I'm good at it, and I by default love anything that will increase my earning capacity but it's not like I had this burning desire to get an MBA. And it's not like I love doing P&Ls and sitting on manager's calls either- this would not be improved with an advanced degree, I'd just be paid more to tolerate it. My passions are more creative and I shake my head at the CEOs of the world and vow that if I were able to get 1/10 of their assets, I surely would not continue to work. I'd rather go to art school, which is also heinously expensive.
But I digress. On the one hand I could see getting the right degree could propel me down the consulting path and I could earn easily over $200k+ per year thus accelerating FIRE. Or I could plug along, reduce expenses, and not be on the hook for $50k-$100k which could rather go into investments or paying the parents off. At my current rate, I cannot fire for another 15 years anyhow at which point I will be 50.
I just want to move to a small town and be a sheriff's deputy.
PS My apologies for this incoherent and rambling post.