Hi Eggman111,
Although I love much about our life here, I am absolutely willing to leave Vancouver, and I'd consider any part of BC, if not beyond. However, I'm finding it harder to make new "best friends" as we all get older, and I'm really feeling the need for some support caring for my son (I've been solo on this almost 24/7 for three years and 24/5 for the six years before that), so one of my criteria is being near a close friend, especially one willing and able to help me with my son in any way. This narrows me down to Rossland, lower Sunshine Coast, and Comox Valley, but most likely one of the latter two as then we can stay reasonably connected with most family members.
I'm in a basement suite now -it's small but super nice, but also gets lots of noise from upstairs, and for that reason I'm not willing to do a basement suite or apartment again unless we absolutely have no choice. We've been in these kinds of noise situations for all but six months of my entire life, and I'm done. I'd rather put an RV on land or something than do that.
I am also willing to live communally: shared house, or unconventional shelter on shared land, or WWOOF, etc. Looking at all these possibilities.
An ex-boyfriend has just offered me space on his new land, so that's a possibility except that it's a bit noisy and crowded and I'm not sure I'm ready yet to watch him date!
I absolutely love the Abbotsford area, but fear feeling isolated without the friend part nearby.