Thank you for the tag,
@Dicey!
I'm 34yo and my 2 kids are teenagers already. I feel like i'm behind since i only have $22,000 invested. I was recently medically discharged from the Army after 17 years of service due to an injury in Iraq and will receive $4,300/mo adjusted for inflation indefinitely. I was also granted ssdi of $2,600/mo and have two rental properties with rents totaling $3,400/mo. My wife and kids were given medical benefits for life as well as education benefits for college. I live in a lcol and my expenses including investing and mortgages totals $7,000/mo
How do you think I should look at my current situation? What are some things I should do?
I also have an emergency fund of $20,000
I owe 250k on my mortgages on properties and theyre worth around 730k combined. I have no other debt.
That's what I was thinking, to let the mortgages ride, esp because my interest rates are each below 4%.
I think everything’s going to be fine. I’ll start with the mortgage debt.
We’re also carrying a mortgage in our retirement (3.5% for 30 years) and over the last 20 years we’ve earned a compound annual growth rate of 9%/year in a total stock market index fund. If you’re comfortable with breathtaking volatility (like April 2025’s market whipsawing) or can ignore it for the long term, it makes sense to borrow at less than 5% and invest in a total stock market index fund.
It works even better with military pensions & VA disability compensation because you’re borrowing against a very reliable stream of income that rises with inflation, and using it to pay off debt at a fixed interest rate.
Around $1,900/mo in expenses, the rest is cashflow. Would it be better to sell?
My spouse and I have been landlords for 28 of the last 31 years. I’m over it but she feels tremendous senses of sentiment & security. (She grew up helping her parents with their rentals.) Rental income also diversifies you from the stock market and other asset classes.
Landlord for as long as you find it challenging & fulfilling. When the fun stops, then cash out and pay the taxes.
I appreciate your response. I guess i'm just nervous because although they did say it was permanent, I do worry if it actually is, so I have a hard time determining how much my "number" to save should be. I've got the discipline portion down, I'm not super thrifty, but it's at a happy median I would say. My expenses are 70k a year and that's including investing and paying for mortgages and taxes.
As others have mentioned, your expenses are less than your income and you’re receiving annual inflation-fighting cost-of-living adjustments on the income. Financially—math and logic— you’re fine.
I’m guessing that you either have a military disability pension (Chapter 61) and/or your VA disability rating is 100% permanent & total. Neither DoD nor the VA will change that in the future, and the majority of retirees raise their annual spending at less than the rate of inflation. For the rest of your life, your income is highly likely to grow faster than your expenses.
If you’re not already working with a Veteran Service Officer, then talk with one at your local VA office or clinic about the taxes on your income. I haven’t kept up with the taxation of DoD’s disability pensions, and you already know that VA disability compensation is tax-exempt. (VA disability compensation is not even reported to the IRS.) I’m pretty sure that SSDI continues until you reach your Social Security Full Retirement Age, or at least until you start SS. A VSO can help you with that research too.
If you’re not already on your state’s website for their Department of Veteran’s Affairs, you might be eligible for additional benefits— like no property taxes on your primary residence and no annual vehicle registration fees.
My spouse and I are also both receiving military pensions, and over the last 23 years my pension has grown over 77%. (Three of those year were even 0 COLAs.) We’re deliberately spending down our taxable account and our Roth IRAs in our 60s (with philanthropy & gifting) because we can project that our wealth will grow even faster when we start Social Security at age 70.
If you want, you could consider your $8400/month of net income as the dividends from a portfolio of I bonds or TIPS. (It’s an imperfect analogy, but it’s good enough for asset allocation discussions.) With their current yields of 3.98% and 2.65% you’d have the equivalent investments of $2.5M in I bonds or $3.8M in TIPS. Better still, your “dividends” will keep up with the Consumer Price Index and they’re the most secure bonds you can buy.
With your bond-like income and your low-interest mortgages, you could choose to invest most of your savings (for the long term of at least 10 years) in a total stock-market index fund. You’d want to keep a cash stash to replace a rental’s HVAC or hurricane/hail-damaged roof, but you could always choose to sell some of your equities to cover those emergent expenses.
From the emotions of behavioral financial psychology, if it helps you sleep better at night, you could build up some investments in a taxable account. (Military pensions, VA disability compensation, and SSDI are not earned income for Roth IRA contributions.) If your spouse has earned income then in 2025 you could contribute up to $7000 of her income into your spousal Roth IRA.
I’m not sure how much you’d want to save & invest for your comfort. You certainly should enjoy your quality of life now with as much family travel and other experiences as you can. You could either “save & invest what’s left over after spending” or choose to save/invest 10% and decide if that adversely impacts your quality of life.
You could set up a few savings goals of a fantasy vacation, or paying for a kid’s wedding, or simply gifting them in their 20s & 30s. You’d be sharing part of their inheritance with them while you’re all still alive to enjoy it together.
I understand that if my expenses are covered by my income, which they are, that i'm pretty much retired. I guess due to the uncertainty of it all, I don't feel comfortable calling it done. I feel like I need to have a nest egg, just not sure how much. And since my net worth is tied to my properties, I feel like somehow it's not as valid, especially when i hear finance gurus saying not to include property values in your net worth.
As far as what I want to do, I enjoy hiking, reading, gardening, and volunteering in my local community. I would also like to get bigger into fitness, yoga, and cooking as well as being a more involved parent.
In 1988, Paul Terhorst wrote “Cashing In On The American Dream.” (It’s one of the first financial-independence books of the Baby Boomer generation.) In there he recommends that after quitting work, you make no new long-term commitments for two years. Just enjoy time with your family and experiment with different activities that you think could be challenging & fulfilling. Keep trying different things every month or few. Eventually you’ll find activities that light you up and you’ll settle into your new groove.
Two of my properties have a detached house of 600sqft that can generate another ~$7-800each if rented, i just need to invest around 35k in each to get them up and running, not sure if that's worth doing.
That looks like a great project for your new free time, and it has a return on investment too.
Check your ZIP code’s zoning & permit requirements, do the math, and enjoy the additional net cash flow.