Let's see, you take home $200k after taxes, and your rent is going up to $5,500/mo, which comes out to $66,000, leaving you with a measly $134,000 to cover all your other expenses. For a single person. Oh, you poor thing!
Seriously, what are you spending all of that money on, that you can't save up for a down payment!? Ex housing, our family of eight spends half as much as this single woman does.
It would be endlessly entertaining IMO to take a look at her credit card statement. $367/day on daily expenses seems like a LOT. I wonder how often she eats out?