We are slowly redoing our hardscaping and landscaping. The front lawn was replaced with slate chips. They're perfect under redwood trees. There are boxwoods and azaleas along the edges, both of which were there when we bought the house. The backyard is going to get a small patch of turf, but it will be surrounded by mostly xeriscape and more redwood trees. Why? Because we live in a drought-stricken area. The patch of turf will represent about 15-20% of the total backyard space. Fake grass doesn't need to be fertilized either.
We also have three homes in a Sun City development in the desert. They are all landscaped with gravel and desert tolerant plants. Fun fact: per the HOA's ridiculous rules, sand is not allowed to accumulate in the gravel. One of the houses is on the edge of the development. It gets awesome sunsets, but also collects more blown-in sand. We just paid $1600 to have the gravel scooped out, screeded, the excess sand removed, and the gravel put back. Ugh.
True story: A neighbor xeriscaped their home. The bees, etc. loved it. One day, the husband stumbled into a hidden nest. He was stung so many times, he died. The bereaved wife let everything go for several years and it turned into a jungle. Recently, she ripped everything out and started over. Xeriscape does not mean zero maintenance, alas.
Every option has consequences.