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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8600 on: June 09, 2015, 02:24:12 PM »



I find obesity to be similar to people that can't save. It's a simple matter of what matters to each of us individually. The fat women with 'tyroid' problems, is like someone who complains that they can't save their earnings even though they may make 30k more than their mustachain coworker. She may think that skinny people are lucky, and I'm guessing that she will think that people that FIRE in their 30s are depraved or come from money or have some special skill that mere mortals like her lack.



I hate to continue the foam, but I see so many misunderstandings of hypothyroidism that I can't let keep sliding by. While a low thyroid is only responsible for minimal weight gain, it is also responsible for major, major energy loss. When I was diagnosed and given meds, the first thing I noticed was an increase in energy, as in to crazy levels I hadn't felt since my mid-20's. The docs don't tell you this, and they don't tell you to take advantage of it right away, or you will adjust to it and stay lazy.

It's almost impossible to lose weight with no energy. I went from highly active hiking/backpacking and reasonable weight, to overweight and no activity, all over the course of a few years. It took several years for anyone to even mention the thyroid to me, so I though it wa age, lifestyle creep, and stress. I WAS overweight, I'm (almost) not now. I would have been physically and mentally incapable of losing the weight without constant monitoring of the thyroid and proper medication. That is what gave me the energy I needed to exercise both my body and my self restraint. Unfortunately, my experience when I was trying to find a Dr. was most of them saw this condition as a fat woman's disease that would just get worse because it was something fat, lazy women got. Really, it is a disease that can make previously thin, active women fat and lazy. We don't know why it happens, society judges us, out confidence tanks, and we accept the blame, because everyone knows only lazy people get fat.

For skipping over purposes: FOAM ALERT...

Just adding to the foam to agree. My husband developed hypothyroid in his early 40s...he had always been super active, and all of a sudden he wanted to sleep all the time. He gained some weight...but the problem was mostly his fitness level plummeted. With medication, he went back to to normal.

Weight is such a crazy combo of genetic, environmental, and behavioral factors. In addition to medical conditions (diabetes, PCOS, and pituitary disorders also can contribute to/cause weight gain in kind of a chicken/egg cycle), bodies often have plateau weights that they 'like'.  I'm 5'4" and 102 lbs at 44 years old, which is the same weight as I was in college.  I would love to take a lot of credit for this, but it's somewhat a fluke of my metabolism. I'm not a very consistent or intense exerciser, but I do eat generally unprocessed, plant-heavy diet. I eat a lot of healthy fats. My weight is a little too low, but right now, I can't GAIN weight (except by weight training)...I actively tried for 9 months and finally gave up. I just can't eat enough food except by liquid calories, which I get sick of. My body just burns it off with no effort. At other times in my life my body seemed to cling effortlessly to my next highest 'plateau' weight of 113-115 lbs. I wasn't doing much different then...body just liked it there better when I was in my late 30s.

Meh. Bodies are just so weird and individual that I  that I really hesitate to judge peoples' weight unless I regularly (like, nearly every day) see someone stuffing their face with processed or unhealthy food and know for sure they never exercise. And even then, food can be addictive...and unlike other substances, you can't 'quit' food, so you if you are susceptible to overeating, you are always at risk.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8601 on: June 09, 2015, 02:46:11 PM »
"I wish I could eat what you eat, but I have low glycemic index (self-diagnosed) sugar so I need to eat less carbs"


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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8602 on: June 09, 2015, 02:54:12 PM »
Meh. Bodies are just so weird and individual that I  that I really hesitate to judge peoples' weight unless I regularly (like, nearly every day) see someone stuffing their face with processed or unhealthy food and know for sure they never exercise. And even then, food can be addictive...and unlike other substances, you can't 'quit' food, so you if you are susceptible to overeating, you are always at risk.

Please don't take what I'm about to say personally...this is merely my observation.

I don't understand why somebody can't just "quit" food. I have three uncles who smoked for 10+ years and all three quit cold turkey, and this was back when all manly men smoked.

If you're not supposed to eat it, don't eat it.

If you can't stand being around it and can't control yourself, don't buy it, or, avoid it.

I have yet to personally meet somebody who is overweight (based on BMI) who does not have some sort of food indulgence that they should not be into (soda, cake, fatty foods etc.)...and I'm not even taking exercise into consideration.

The fittest guys (read thin) in my workplace are the ones that exercise regularly, and eat healthy. They are the ones that don't eat the cake from the monthly birthday parties, or partake in the unhealthy free breakfasts and lunches.

But then again, it could all just be a coincidence since my sample size is so small.

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« Reply #8603 on: June 09, 2015, 02:59:31 PM »
Said coworker keep trying to convince me that it's a terrible idea to pay cash for a car, and that he's much better off always driving a new car with payments and a warranty. 

Lolwut?

What could his rationale have possibly been?  I am very curious!

His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8604 on: June 09, 2015, 04:58:35 PM »
His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Um.... bullet point 1 would make sense if it was a house... but we are talking about a new car.  The car is depreciating.....  You are still losing money.

I don't even need to address the other 3 bullet points, at least not on this forum. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8605 on: June 09, 2015, 05:02:41 PM »
Meh. Bodies are just so weird and individual that I  that I really hesitate to judge peoples' weight unless I regularly (like, nearly every day) see someone stuffing their face with processed or unhealthy food and know for sure they never exercise. And even then, food can be addictive...and unlike other substances, you can't 'quit' food, so you if you are susceptible to overeating, you are always at risk.

Please don't take what I'm about to say personally...this is merely my observation.

I don't understand why somebody can't just "quit" food. I have three uncles who smoked for 10+ years and all three quit cold turkey, and this was back when all manly men smoked.

If you're not supposed to eat it, don't eat it.

If you can't stand being around it and can't control yourself, don't buy it, or, avoid it.

I have yet to personally meet somebody who is overweight (based on BMI) who does not have some sort of food indulgence that they should not be into (soda, cake, fatty foods etc.)...and I'm not even taking exercise into consideration.

The fittest guys (read thin) in my workplace are the ones that exercise regularly, and eat healthy. They are the ones that don't eat the cake from the monthly birthday parties, or partake in the unhealthy free breakfasts and lunches.

But then again, it could all just be a coincidence since my sample size is so small.

Just an FYI Dwayne Johnston(the Rock from WWE) is obese according to BMI.  Not the best scale to measure on.

https://www.yahoo.com/health/why-dwayne-the-rock-johnson-is-technically-obese-117180855078.html

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8606 on: June 09, 2015, 06:32:03 PM »
I'm overweight based on BMI. I am 4'11" tall and weigh 127 pounds.

I do not overindulge in any one food. Obviously I overindulge a little in ALL of them and need to spend more time on my bike. But then, I don't think I "look" overweight by American standards these days, so maybe I'm not in the previous poster's sample.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8607 on: June 09, 2015, 06:51:11 PM »
"I wish I could eat what you eat, but I have low glycemic index (self-diagnosed) sugar so I need to eat less carbs"



Think [ETA: partgypsy's coworker or whomever) probably means that he/she has reactive hypoglycemia, and therefore needs to eat foods low on the glycemic index to keep blood sugar from spiking and then crashing. I have the same condition. It is similar to eating how a diabetic would. But I realize you were commenting on the irony of the saturated fat].
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8608 on: June 09, 2015, 07:04:15 PM »
Meh. Bodies are just so weird and individual that I  that I really hesitate to judge peoples' weight unless I regularly (like, nearly every day) see someone stuffing their face with processed or unhealthy food and know for sure they never exercise. And even then, food can be addictive...and unlike other substances, you can't 'quit' food, so you if you are susceptible to overeating, you are always at risk.

Please don't take what I'm about to say personally...this is merely my observation.

I don't understand why somebody can't just "quit" food. I have three uncles who smoked for 10+ years and all three quit cold turkey, and this was back when all manly men smoked.

If you're not supposed to eat it, don't eat it.

If you can't stand being around it and can't control yourself, don't buy it, or, avoid it.

I have yet to personally meet somebody who is overweight (based on BMI) who does not have some sort of food indulgence that they should not be into (soda, cake, fatty foods etc.)...and I'm not even taking exercise into consideration.

The fittest guys (read thin) in my workplace are the ones that exercise regularly, and eat healthy. They are the ones that don't eat the cake from the monthly birthday parties, or partake in the unhealthy free breakfasts and lunches.

But then again, it could all just be a coincidence since my sample size is so small.

No, I generally agree with you. Most weight gain is totally preventable.

All I meant is, people have to eat food to live. You don't have to smoke or drink or do drugs or gamble or have sex or whatever to survive. Food is, for most people, also a source of IMMENSE pleasure, so even eating healthy foods, it's easy for some people slip into overindulgence.  I've also met some people who literally HATE the taste/texture of vegetables and fruit. This is an alien concept to me, but then, I find the fact that people don't want to eat salad 4 or 5 times a week baffling. That would be difficult hurdle to cross every day, forever.

But yes, exercise and eating well will keep most peoples' weight stable, and that requires some discipline and (mostly) just good habits. At least with me it's mostly habit.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8609 on: June 09, 2015, 07:06:23 PM »
Meh. Bodies are just so weird and individual that I  that I really hesitate to judge peoples' weight unless I regularly (like, nearly every day) see someone stuffing their face with processed or unhealthy food and know for sure they never exercise. And even then, food can be addictive...and unlike other substances, you can't 'quit' food, so you if you are susceptible to overeating, you are always at risk.

Please don't take what I'm about to say personally...this is merely my observation.

I don't understand why somebody can't just "quit" food. I have three uncles who smoked for 10+ years and all three quit cold turkey, and this was back when all manly men smoked.

If you're not supposed to eat it, don't eat it.

If you can't stand being around it and can't control yourself, don't buy it, or, avoid it.

I have yet to personally meet somebody who is overweight (based on BMI) who does not have some sort of food indulgence that they should not be into (soda, cake, fatty foods etc.)...and I'm not even taking exercise into consideration.

The fittest guys (read thin) in my workplace are the ones that exercise regularly, and eat healthy. They are the ones that don't eat the cake from the monthly birthday parties, or partake in the unhealthy free breakfasts and lunches.

But then again, it could all just be a coincidence since my sample size is so small.

No, I generally agree with you. Most weight gain is totally preventable.

All I meant is, people have to eat food to live. You don't have to smoke or drink or do drugs or gamble or have sex or whatever to survive. Food is, for most people, also a source of IMMENSE pleasure, so even eating healthy foods, it's easy for some people slip into overindulgence.  I've also met some people who literally HATE the taste/texture of vegetables and fruit. This is an alien concept to me, but then, I find the fact that people don't want to eat salad 4 or 5 times a week baffling. That would be difficult hurdle to cross every day, forever.

But yes, exercise and eating well will keep most peoples' weight stable, and that requires some discipline and (mostly) just good habits. At least with me it's mostly habit.

Pretty sure sex is a required part of survival. Not of yourself, but of your species.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8610 on: June 09, 2015, 07:14:18 PM »
Pretty sure sex is a required part of survival. Not of yourself, but of your species.

No, I am pretty sure its required for the survival of my sanity, and thus, by extension, myself. :D

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8611 on: June 09, 2015, 07:17:58 PM »
....... My weight is a little too low, but right now, I can't GAIN weight (except by weight training)...I actively tried for 9 months and finally gave up. I just can't eat enough food except by liquid calories, which I get sick of. My body just burns it off with no effort.

Your answer is BEER.  --- at least it works for me  :-)

But seriously:
Hyperthyrodism?  Have you been to the doctor to check it out?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8612 on: June 09, 2015, 08:34:40 PM »
Pretty sure sex is a required part of survival. Not of yourself, but of your species.

No, I am pretty sure its required for the survival of my sanity, and thus, by extension, myself. :D
Today's SMBC is very topical.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8613 on: June 09, 2015, 08:39:07 PM »
Pretty sure sex is a required part of survival. Not of yourself, but of your species.

No, I am pretty sure its required for the survival of my sanity, and thus, by extension, myself. :D
Today's SMBC is very topical.

You sir, have made my night.

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« Reply #8614 on: June 09, 2015, 08:44:15 PM »
Glad to be of service.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8615 on: June 09, 2015, 09:00:33 PM »
Said coworker keep trying to convince me that it's a terrible idea to pay cash for a car, and that he's much better off always driving a new car with payments and a warranty. 

Lolwut?

What could his rationale have possibly been?  I am very curious!

His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Jesus tap-dancing Christ...

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« Reply #8616 on: June 09, 2015, 09:03:41 PM »
Said coworker keep trying to convince me that it's a terrible idea to pay cash for a car, and that he's much better off always driving a new car with payments and a warranty. 

Lolwut?

What could his rationale have possibly been?  I am very curious!

His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Jesus tap-dancing Christ...

Dude sounds like half the privates in my unit. If only they listened to me... one can dream, right?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8617 on: June 10, 2015, 06:14:23 AM »
....... My weight is a little too low, but right now, I can't GAIN weight (except by weight training)...I actively tried for 9 months and finally gave up. I just can't eat enough food except by liquid calories, which I get sick of. My body just burns it off with no effort.

Your answer is BEER.  --- at least it works for me  :-)

But seriously:
Hyperthyrodism?  Have you been to the doctor to check it out?

HA! My mom keeps trying to get me to drink stout LOL, but I really only like beer occasionally. I drink wine with dinner, but that doesn't have quite a much an effect for weight gain. And yes, I've had all kinds of tests, repeatedly. I have a lot of mild, chronic health-related issues, some diagnosed, some possibly unid'd autoimmune that tests have never specifically diagnosed. I'm not sure my weight has any relation to that, though. Like I said, I was the same weight in college after dropping about 20 lbs from my high school weight. And I held it stable pretty easily back then, too.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8618 on: June 10, 2015, 06:26:13 AM »
At work I was listening to people brag about the length of their commutes.  One guy was 45 minutes, another was 1h 15m, another guy chimed in that they are looking at houses where the commute would be 1h 30m.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8619 on: June 10, 2015, 07:51:11 AM »
His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Um.... bullet point 1 would make sense if it was a house... but we are talking about a new car.  The car is depreciating.....  You are still losing money.

More foam.

The actual value of the asset you're borrowing against has no relation to whether or not you should borrow to invest or pay cash.

An extreme example: I borrow $100 from you to buy a cat picture from the internet. Market value of the cat picture is $0, but I want to pay $100 and find someone willing to take it. You charge me 5% interest over a year, so at the end of one year, I owe you $105. At the same time I borrow from you and buy the cat picture, I find a bond willing to pay 10% interest, so I give them $100, and a year later get $110 back.

Year end results:
Pay cash: me $0, cat picture seller $100
Borrow and invest: you $5, bond issuer -$10, me $5, cat picture seller $100

But the real lesson here is that it's best to sell cat pictures and new cars to suckers.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8620 on: June 10, 2015, 08:09:34 AM »
CW:  My roommate has been eating fast food every night since our microwave broke last month.

Me: You can get a microwave off of craigslist for like 20 bucks.

CW:  We have a microwave that's connected to our stove and range.  It's probably gonna be a couple hundred to get fixed.  I never even use it, I cook my own food on the stove and range.  But he gets home late and has frozen microwave dinners every night because he's trying to lose weight.

Me: I don't think frozen dinners are very good for losing weight.  They're loaded with sugar and artificial crap.

CW:  I know but he doesn't know how to cook, so it's either those or the drive-thru.  He doesn't like the food I eat.

Me:  So instead of buying a cheap microwave or learning how to cook, he's going out for dinner every night?  Why doesn't he fix the microwave?

CW:  He says he can't right now, he needs the extra money for the drive-thru.

Me:  [palm-to-forehead].  So I guess he hasn't lost much weight either.

CW:  No, he's probably gained some.

Me:  Wait a minute, you guys are renting, right?  Why don't you have your landlord fix the f%$ing microwave?

CW:  I don't think that's included in our lease.  Do landlords usually pay for stuff like that?

Me: [I need a new job]

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8621 on: June 10, 2015, 08:13:54 AM »
His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Um.... bullet point 1 would make sense if it was a house... but we are talking about a new car.  The car is depreciating.....  You are still losing money.

More foam.

The actual value of the asset you're borrowing against has no relation to whether or not you should borrow to invest or pay cash.

An extreme example: I borrow $100 from you to buy a cat picture from the internet. Market value of the cat picture is $0, but I want to pay $100 and find someone willing to take it. You charge me 5% interest over a year, so at the end of one year, I owe you $105. At the same time I borrow from you and buy the cat picture, I find a bond willing to pay 10% interest, so I give them $100, and a year later get $110 back.

Year end results:
Pay cash: me $0, cat picture seller $100
Borrow and invest: you $5, bond issuer -$10, me $5, cat picture seller $100


But the real lesson here is that it's best to sell cat pictures and new cars to suckers.


I think your breakdown would be more like this:


Pay cash: me $0, cat picture seller $100Borrow and invest: you $5, bond issuer -$10, me -$95, cat picture seller $100

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8622 on: June 10, 2015, 05:10:14 PM »
His argument is a mix  of :
  • You're always better off borrowing money if the interest rate is less than inflation or then you can make investing it, otherwise you actually LOSE money.  Hint : he doesn' t actually invest the money.
  • If the car ages out of warranty, then you have to start paying for maintenance yourself.  So clearly the better option is to always drive a new car with a warranty and then you never have to come up with money if the car needs repairs.  Instead of, ya know, having a budget line item for vehicle maintenance.
  • By taking out a car loan, you get a five year newer, better car with tomorrow's dollars, which, presumably are going to worth less.
  • Once you pay off your car loan, the money is already in your budget for the next one.
I adore him, but something I just can't even with him. 
We agreed to disagree about the second day of our friendship, and we've been having this same exact argument since 2006 when he went with me to buy the car I'm currently driving.

Um.... bullet point 1 would make sense if it was a house... but we are talking about a new car.  The car is depreciating.....  You are still losing money.

More foam.

The actual value of the asset you're borrowing against has no relation to whether or not you should borrow to invest or pay cash.


Foam?  I'm not really sure what this is referring to?

The value doesn't really matter.  Whether it appreciates or depreciates does, and that is what I was referring to.  The original quote referenced investing the money, but the guy is actually buying a car.

Car:  If I borrow 20k to buy a car that is worth 20k today, but I'm paying interest and the car is depreciating at the end I will likely have ended up paying 30k for something that is only worth 10k at the end of the period.  20k loss.

Investing:  If you borrow 100k to buy an appreciating asset(stocks) where the growth rate is equal to or greater than the interest rate you can actually end up in a situation where you paid 200k(with interest) for something that is worth 200k or even 300k.  0 profit or 100k profit.  It could also drop off a cliff.  I'm not advocating either idea.  I was just pointing out borrowing money to buy a depreciating asset is a much worse idea than using it to buy an appreciating asset.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8623 on: June 10, 2015, 05:43:47 PM »
You're missing the opportunity cost factor.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8624 on: June 10, 2015, 06:41:07 PM »

Foam?  I'm not really sure what this is referring to?


You clearly haven't read this entire thread ;)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8625 on: June 10, 2015, 06:43:20 PM »
You clearly haven't read this entire thread ;)

Nobody's read the entire thread.  It's officially longer than a Proust novel.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8626 on: June 10, 2015, 06:46:53 PM »
You clearly haven't read this entire thread ;)

Nobody's read the entire thread.  It's officially longer than a Proust novel.

You clearly haven't read my signature ;)

Also here is where "foam" started (and is defined, we have NoraLenderbee to thank):
http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/antimustachian-wall-of-shame-and-comedy/overheard-at-work/4500/
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8627 on: June 10, 2015, 06:53:12 PM »

Foam?  I'm not really sure what this is referring to?


You clearly haven't read this entire thread ;)

Actually... I have read most of it.  A few pages at a time.

Thanks for the link QueenAlice.  I agree.  It was starting to get a bit foamy. 

Now we are getting foamy about the topic of foam.  ;)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8628 on: June 10, 2015, 07:16:57 PM »

Foam?  I'm not really sure what this is referring to?


You clearly haven't read this entire thread ;)

Actually... I have read most of it.  A few pages at a time.

Thanks for the link QueenAlice.  I agree.  It was starting to get a bit foamy. 

Now we are getting foamy about the topic of foam.  ;)


Not the first time that's happened in this thread.




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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8629 on: June 10, 2015, 07:25:57 PM »
Anyone remember black boxes?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8630 on: June 10, 2015, 07:29:52 PM »
Anyone remember black boxes?

You mean orange boxes?

And yes, I have read the entire thread.

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« Reply #8631 on: June 10, 2015, 07:39:27 PM »
I have also read the entire thread.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8632 on: June 10, 2015, 07:46:04 PM »
Damn right I've read it all, 8855 posts over 2 and a half years since it's started. That's like 10 posts per day. Slow and steady wins the race, people!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8633 on: June 10, 2015, 08:30:27 PM »
Damn right I've read it all, 8855 posts over 2 and a half years since it's started. That's like 10 posts per day. Slow and steady wins the race, people!
I had surgery in early December 2014, and got four weeks of (paid!) FMLA.  Reading this thread from start to finish was one of my time-killing activities!  I think it actually took me about three months to work through the whole thing.  Anyhow, you can stuff that foam in your black/orange box!  ;-)

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« Reply #8634 on: June 10, 2015, 09:19:44 PM »
Damn right I've read it all, 8855 posts over 2 and a half years since it's started. That's like 10 posts per day. Slow and steady wins the race, people!

Respect, but I felt it got pretty boring about 150 pages ago, and I quit, like a big quitty quitter.  There's the occasional highlight that actually qualifies for hall of shame, but it has mostly disintegrated into street-level, average poor financial management.

And yet, here I am.  Mostly to keep my unread replies list empty, I guess.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8635 on: June 10, 2015, 09:43:28 PM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8636 on: June 10, 2015, 11:40:24 PM »
I've read the whole thing too...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8637 on: June 11, 2015, 01:44:09 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance


I see what you did there.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8638 on: June 11, 2015, 06:35:57 AM »
Anyone remember black boxes?

You mean orange boxes?

And yes, I have read the entire thread.
the new ones are red :P

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8639 on: June 11, 2015, 07:50:12 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance

I have read this entire thread, too.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8640 on: June 11, 2015, 08:20:33 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance

I have read this entire thread, too.

How many have read this thread entirely while at work overhearing stupid stuff?

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« Reply #8641 on: June 11, 2015, 08:34:52 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance

I have read this entire thread, too.

How many have read this thread entirely while at work overhearing stupid stuff?

What? Are you suggesting people don't work when they're at work?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8642 on: June 11, 2015, 08:51:13 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance

I have read this entire thread, too.

How many have read this thread entirely while at work overhearing stupid stuff?

What? Are you suggesting people don't work when they're at work?

Blasphemy!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8643 on: June 11, 2015, 09:00:10 AM »
Hi all! I'm new here and I've got one from a past job that I haven't read yet (and I've read all 178 pages!).

CW was in her 30's with 3 kids and an unemployed husband, making around 40K a year without benefits in a HCOL area, and pretty open about money troubles (whole family in a one bedroom apartment, a few mentions of food stamps, etc). She was also really self conscious about her post-pregnancy figure, and had a friend of a friend who was a patient coordinator for a surgeon and was able to get her a "great price" of $5K on a tummy tuck. Somehow she was able to come up with the money to have it done. The icing on the cake, she wanted to lose more weight to get a better result and spent a ton of money on meal-replacement shakes to lose about 20 more pounds before the surgery.

Blew my mind.

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« Reply #8644 on: June 11, 2015, 09:59:12 AM »
Someone save a link to this page of the thread for a few months from now when someone says no one has read this whole thread!
We are two former teachers who accumulated a bunch of real estate, retired at 29, and now travel the world full time with two kids.
If you want to know more about me, or how we did that, or see lots of pictures, this Business Insider profile tells our story pretty well.
We (occasionally) blog at AdventuringAlong.com.
You can also read my forum "Journal."

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« Reply #8645 on: June 11, 2015, 10:18:04 AM »
I think I read this entire thread while at work!

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« Reply #8646 on: June 11, 2015, 10:33:57 AM »
I think I read this entire thread while at work!

Overread at Work!
We are two former teachers who accumulated a bunch of real estate, retired at 29, and now travel the world full time with two kids.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8647 on: June 11, 2015, 11:07:27 AM »
First post at last... Working my way through this awesome thread but got this gem at work today.

CW1 (mustachian-to-be) (to CW2): Spawnstache has some really god advice on how to save money and get rich
CW2: So, Spawnstache, what's the secret?
Spawnstache (very flattered):Well, you have to pay yourself first. Treat your savings like your bills.
CW2: And what about the fancy stuff you want to buy?
Spawnstache: Well, mostly you don't buy it...
CW2: I'm out...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #8648 on: June 11, 2015, 11:09:21 AM »
This one's me:

Moved to SF. 15 minute commute turned into... well, 30, if I cheat by saying that I get to work on the bus to and from work, or an hour and a half if I don't.

If it wasn't for that bus with wifi, I probably wouldn't have done it.

On the plus side, I am saving about $700-900/month depending on various factors compared to last year.

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« Reply #8649 on: June 11, 2015, 11:20:48 AM »
I have also read the entire thread.

Me too... hey has anyone else read this thread?  If so, please speak up, it might be your last chance
I've read it all, and if I find time to catch up on one thread, it's this one.