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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19900 on: March 16, 2018, 01:34:45 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19901 on: March 17, 2018, 01:42:43 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.


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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19902 on: March 17, 2018, 03:44:01 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19903 on: March 17, 2018, 05:18:32 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19904 on: March 17, 2018, 10:50:44 PM »
Coworker was on new hire 6 month probation and it was not going well with regular 'performance feedback' meetings giving poor reviews. They were staying with family members since moving to a new city, and constantly talking about going around to buy new furniture to it could be ready for their new place in the spring. I asked, 'Where will you store these items if you buy them now? Why not wait until you have the place and then you know what your space requirements will be?' (Strong hints that  large purchases may not be wise when getting fired is imminent.) Alas, the hint was not not clear enough, and neither were the multiple performance review warnings. With 1.5 months left on probation still they signed for a 3 bedroom house and made a few other public expensive commitments (booked flights, etc) and then were given immediate notice of 'non-renewal of contract effective immediately' a few days after moving in to the big place, and right after they turned down a friend as a potential paying room-mate/tenant.  I'm very sad for them, and also so frustrated that they will be in a really bad position now and that it would have been mostly preventable.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19905 on: March 19, 2018, 05:20:00 AM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

I also don't think the dog has anything to do with any nesting behaviours. I also don't want to interfere with my colleague's decision on whether and when to have children. I just think he should realize that a dog is very expensive and that he takes a very deliberate decision about having a dog. The money should be worth it.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19906 on: March 19, 2018, 08:58:51 AM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

When I was pregnant with our first both of my husbands siblings ended up with dogs. They couldn't have more babies so they went out and got dogs. It's a thing.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19907 on: March 19, 2018, 09:32:57 AM »
I managed to own a dog for 13 years before having children.  I don't think the two are related.
Then again, I lack nesting, as my kid is 1 and we still don't have a "nursery" set up.


Dogs aren't that expensive, though the occasional $800 emergency vet bill does suck. I guess it depends what you define as expensive.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19908 on: March 19, 2018, 11:53:32 AM »
I managed to own a dog for 13 years before having children.  I don't think the two are related.
Then again, I lack nesting, as my kid is 1 and we still don't have a "nursery" set up.


Dogs aren't that expensive, though the occasional $800 emergency vet bill does suck. I guess it depends what you define as expensive.

Depends on the life-style and what you feel is appropriate for a dog. If you travel a ton, boarding can get super expensive. If you get a puppy and feel you need to take them to doggy day care every day, it gets expensive.

Some people (even frugal people) can't have a dog and just leave them at home all day without expensive food, dog walkers etc. They just don't believe that's how you treat a dog.

If you are more like me and think a dog is a dog and don't travel much, it can be cheap to own a dog for the entertainment/companionship you get.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19909 on: March 19, 2018, 12:26:18 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

+10.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19910 on: March 19, 2018, 12:58:31 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

+10.

Also, I'm not sure about Norway, but in my area of the planet, one does not talk to younger coworkers about their contraception methods. That would be a great way to get reported to HR. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19911 on: March 19, 2018, 01:30:12 PM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

+10.

Also, I'm not sure about Norway, but in my area of the planet, one does not talk to younger coworkers about their contraception methods. That would be a great way to get reported to HR.


hahahaha!

"So did you file that TPS report? Is your girlfriend on the pill?"

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19912 on: March 19, 2018, 06:56:28 PM »
Co worker of mine was defending why she was driving a large pick up truck.  She said that "it's only used to take me to work and back (~70KM round tip)and to tow our trailer around in the summer.  Plus, we bought it when the new model year was coming out, so we got a deal on it." 

This person thinks this is actually how you save money.  Stunning!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19913 on: March 20, 2018, 05:26:20 AM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

+10.

Also, I'm not sure about Norway, but in my area of the planet, one does not talk to younger coworkers about their contraception methods. That would be a great way to get reported to HR.


hahahaha!

"So did you file that TPS report? Is your girlfriend on the pill?"

Yea in America it would go like this (assuming there are no women around):

"Whoa, she's getting a dog, huh?  You better lock that thing down before a baby pops out of it!"

Then everyone would laugh and slap each other on the back, and that person would get reported to HR for their strong mentoring and leadership skills and promoted to VP.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19914 on: March 20, 2018, 06:47:28 AM »
Young colleague has just bought his first place. He wants to rent out a room to a room mate to make ends meet. Can't affort much furniture yet.
Now his GF moved in with him and wants to buy a dog. My colleague was wondering whether a dog was expensive. Another colleague at the table, who didn't want a dog, but lost the argument with the rest of his family, confirmed that having a dog is very expensive indeed.
Are you in a position to talk to young colleague about contraception?  Girlfriend is very likely exhibiting nesting behaviour and a baby could very well follow on quite quickly from the dog.

Um.... I don't know how things roll on your planet. but on this one it's just a dog, dude. And women don't have 'nesting behaviours' so much as men have 'misinterpreted female behaviour based on their male misogynistic outlooks'.

+10.

Also, I'm not sure about Norway, but in my area of the planet, one does not talk to younger coworkers about their contraception methods. That would be a great way to get reported to HR.


hahahaha!

"So did you file that TPS report? Is your girlfriend on the pill?"

Yea in America it would go like this (assuming there are no women around):

"Whoa, she's getting a dog, huh?  You better lock that thing down before a baby pops out of it!"

Then everyone would laugh and slap each other on the back, and that person would get reported to HR for their strong mentoring and leadership skills and promoted to VP.
And this is why America isn't so great....dogs of the non-animal variety. Hanging out in packs and getting ahead.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19915 on: March 20, 2018, 09:43:54 AM »
Coworker recently sold their classic VW Beetle, so now she has a significant amount of cash laying around. Naturally she must spend it on something else so she is looking at buying a travel trailer. As if this isn't bad enough, she has asked nearly everyone in the building if they have space for them to park the new trailer. Because they don't have any place for it and you know, paying $150/mo in storage just won't cut it. I've been so stunned I haven't even said a word.

How about you don't buy anything..

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19916 on: March 21, 2018, 02:05:18 AM »
+10.
Let us take a moment and appreciate that this thread has now 20000 comments.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19917 on: March 21, 2018, 12:14:55 PM »
Coworker recently sold their classic VW Beetle, so now she has a significant amount of cash laying around. Naturally she must spend it on something else so she is looking at buying a travel trailer. As if this isn't bad enough, she has asked nearly everyone in the building if they have space for them to park the new trailer. Because they don't have any place for it and you know, paying $150/mo in storage just won't cut it. I've been so stunned I haven't even said a word.

How about you don't buy anything..

I sense a great opportunity here, I have a travel trailer for sale AND will rent the spot to her ;)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19918 on: March 22, 2018, 09:44:42 AM »
Went on travel with 5 of my coworkers this week and it was depressing.

Two of our coworkers didn't go with us, but I found out that one is 64 and the other 68, with neither planning on retiring anytime soon because of how poorly they've managed their finances.

My supervisor and his wife (also in management) have a combined income of in excess of $225k and live paycheck to paycheck.

On expressing how "I can't even imagine working at age 68" another coworker (in her mid-50's) said "I will have to work until I'm 72." I replied, "What do you mean have to?" She went on a rant about how they can't save anything and excuse after excuse. I was just sitting there thinking, I sure hope that your health even allows you to work that long if that's your plan.

One of my coworkers is in her early 40's with a husband who is retired military. I actually presented MMM to her a few weeks ago and she seemed excited. Unfortunately they LOVE to spend money. Despite trying to sell her on the fact that she has a massive leg up (the pension being equivalent to a risk free $650k if it was invested), I've seen nothing to show she's actually interested. I told her I would answer any questions she had, but if she didn't ask, I wasn't going to preach to her.

Another coworker is in her early 30's. We drove to the site in her $60k Tahoe. I texted my wife and we figured out that every single car we've owned in our lives (8 total cars, we're in our mid 30's) we'd still paid less than that in total. Anyway, on the way they stopped at Starbucks where she spilled her drink in her clown car. And then freaked out about; which I suppose is understandable when your car costs sixty thousand dollars! We went out to dinner the other night and watched her parallel park. She was super careful about not hitting the curb. Turns out her wheels were $1000 each. She's mentioned Dave Ramsey a few times which I suppose is a positive, but actually saving seems to be a foreign concept as long as you're not "in debt."

I've decided we'll just keep our mouth shut about finances from here on out. I imagine I'll end up retiring before every single one of them except the 68 year old.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19919 on: March 22, 2018, 01:30:53 PM »
Maybe I saw your coworker in traffic the other day: big SUV with a front license plate that said in fancy script "Blessed". Hopefully they were thankful for more than their material possessions.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19920 on: March 23, 2018, 12:20:19 AM »
During a meeting at work:

Colleague: Hank did good for himself. He retired early.
Me, interested: Oh, at what age?
Colleague: Oh, I don't know, but before official retirement age.

Me, thinking: hmm, probably at age 63 instead of 65 or so. Okay, I'm not so interested anymore.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19921 on: March 23, 2018, 09:03:29 AM »
Went on travel with 5 of my coworkers this week and it was depressing.

Two of our coworkers didn't go with us, but I found out that one is 64 and the other 68, with neither planning on retiring anytime soon because of how poorly they've managed their finances.

My supervisor and his wife (also in management) have a combined income of in excess of $225k and live paycheck to paycheck.

On expressing how "I can't even imagine working at age 68" another coworker (in her mid-50's) said "I will have to work until I'm 72." I replied, "What do you mean have to?" She went on a rant about how they can't save anything and excuse after excuse. I was just sitting there thinking, I sure hope that your health even allows you to work that long if that's your plan.

One of my coworkers is in her early 40's with a husband who is retired military. I actually presented MMM to her a few weeks ago and she seemed excited. Unfortunately they LOVE to spend money. Despite trying to sell her on the fact that she has a massive leg up (the pension being equivalent to a risk free $650k if it was invested), I've seen nothing to show she's actually interested. I told her I would answer any questions she had, but if she didn't ask, I wasn't going to preach to her.

Another coworker is in her early 30's. We drove to the site in her $60k Tahoe. I texted my wife and we figured out that every single car we've owned in our lives (8 total cars, we're in our mid 30's) we'd still paid less than that in total. Anyway, on the way they stopped at Starbucks where she spilled her drink in her clown car. And then freaked out about; which I suppose is understandable when your car costs sixty thousand dollars! We went out to dinner the other night and watched her parallel park. She was super careful about not hitting the curb. Turns out her wheels were $1000 each. She's mentioned Dave Ramsey a few times which I suppose is a positive, but actually saving seems to be a foreign concept as long as you're not "in debt."

I've decided we'll just keep our mouth shut about finances from here on out. I imagine I'll end up retiring before every single one of them except the 68 year old.

Oh boy.

I had a convo with a coworker yesterday who mentioned that he's never really thought about money.  "I just buy what I want."  I joked "Maybe that's why you say you won't ever retire, not just that you put 4 kids through college."  Then he said "well, I don't even remember how many decades ago it was when I made even only $100k."  Um, thanks man.  Wasn't too long ago for me.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19922 on: March 23, 2018, 09:20:37 AM »
Went on travel with 5 of my coworkers this week and it was depressing.

Two of our coworkers didn't go with us, but I found out that one is 64 and the other 68, with neither planning on retiring anytime soon because of how poorly they've managed their finances.

My supervisor and his wife (also in management) have a combined income of in excess of $225k and live paycheck to paycheck.

On expressing how "I can't even imagine working at age 68" another coworker (in her mid-50's) said "I will have to work until I'm 72." I replied, "What do you mean have to?" She went on a rant about how they can't save anything and excuse after excuse. I was just sitting there thinking, I sure hope that your health even allows you to work that long if that's your plan.

One of my coworkers is in her early 40's with a husband who is retired military. I actually presented MMM to her a few weeks ago and she seemed excited. Unfortunately they LOVE to spend money. Despite trying to sell her on the fact that she has a massive leg up (the pension being equivalent to a risk free $650k if it was invested), I've seen nothing to show she's actually interested. I told her I would answer any questions she had, but if she didn't ask, I wasn't going to preach to her.

Another coworker is in her early 30's. We drove to the site in her $60k Tahoe. I texted my wife and we figured out that every single car we've owned in our lives (8 total cars, we're in our mid 30's) we'd still paid less than that in total. Anyway, on the way they stopped at Starbucks where she spilled her drink in her clown car. And then freaked out about; which I suppose is understandable when your car costs sixty thousand dollars! We went out to dinner the other night and watched her parallel park. She was super careful about not hitting the curb. Turns out her wheels were $1000 each. She's mentioned Dave Ramsey a few times which I suppose is a positive, but actually saving seems to be a foreign concept as long as you're not "in debt."

I've decided we'll just keep our mouth shut about finances from here on out. I imagine I'll end up retiring before every single one of them except the 68 year old.

Oh boy.

I had a convo with a coworker yesterday who mentioned that he's never really thought about money.  "I just buy what I want."  I joked "Maybe that's why you say you won't ever retire, not just that you put 4 kids through college."  Then he said "well, I don't even remember how many decades ago it was when I made even only $100k."  Um, thanks man.  Wasn't too long ago for me.
Pre-mustache, I considered "not thinking about money" to be my greatest luxury. I wasn't making anywhere near $100k at the time, but a combination of LCoL and instinctive cheapness meant that my bank account still grew (slowly) without my ever having to consciously budget.

Now I look back and shake my head, thinking about all the money I could have been socking away with only a minor amount of thought applied to my finances!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19923 on: March 23, 2018, 10:12:17 AM »
Oh boy.

I had a convo with a coworker yesterday who mentioned that he's never really thought about money.  "I just buy what I want."  I joked "Maybe that's why you say you won't ever retire, not just that you put 4 kids through college."  Then he said "well, I don't even remember how many decades ago it was when I made even only $100k."  Um, thanks man.  Wasn't too long ago for me.
Pre-mustache, I considered "not thinking about money" to be my greatest luxury. I wasn't making anywhere near $100k at the time, but a combination of LCoL and instinctive cheapness meant that my bank account still grew (slowly) without my ever having to consciously budget.

Now I look back and shake my head, thinking about all the money I could have been socking away with only a minor amount of thought applied to my finances!

I never used to think about money.  Oddly enough (not really), I was always worried/stressed about it though.  Now I think about money a lot (maybe too much), but I never worry about it anymore!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19924 on: March 23, 2018, 10:33:32 AM »
Yesterday my officemate said, "I wish we could name a dollar amount to contribute to our 401Ks instead of a percentage.  I wish I could just put $100 in there instead of $36.64 or whatever it works out to be. Then maybe I could get somewhere."

We both are in our late 30's and we both make around $38,000.  I'm contributing a flat dollar amount of $300 per pay--she's contributing $36.64.  I told her that yes, we can in fact ask for a flat rate because that's exactly what I'm doing, and to email HR asap.

Yikes.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19925 on: March 23, 2018, 11:34:53 AM »
At least it sounds like she's planning to increase her contributions!


I have one office mate who is lovely, but has the weird hobby of shopping for random things/gadgets. Today he showed me a foldable bicycle, which you can take on the train for cheap. He thought it would be nice to visit smaller places with the bike so he could see more of the countryside and wouldn't be limited to the well known cities (he's a Mexican in NL). The bike was cheap, but would need some fixes and would definitely not be a comfy ride for the countryside.

About an hour later, he tells me how he'd like to buy a $600 camera for his travels through Europe. Usually he just tells me how he wants to travel more but has no one to travel with/it's too expensive. I asked him why his phone's camera wasn't sufficient and he told me he wouldn't be able to see certain details if he'd print it larger and would try to paint it. I just looked confused. My paintings could never be accurate enough that a decent phone camera couldn't capture it and make it clear on an A4 print.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19926 on: March 24, 2018, 08:47:12 AM »
The latest circumstance that had me shaking my head at work. 

Coworker really doesn't like his job, but doesn't think he'll be able to retire for the better part of two decades.  He's also worried about how he's going to help pay for his kids college.  His household income is over 150k, he doesn't max his 401k or have an IRA and buys things ALL THE TIME!  He came in the other week and marked down 9 days off in April to go on a vacation that wasn't in the plans until the night before.  It's sad some people don't see they have control over this stuff. 

I like this coworker and wish there was someway I could help without being preachy.  I'm also much younger and in a subordinate position which always complicates things.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19927 on: March 24, 2018, 12:30:23 PM »
That is a sticky subject to discuss money issues with a coworker! Maybe just discuss your desire to retire in 20+/- years and how you are taking advantage of the company 401K and the match they give. Tell him your plans and maybe you will put a bug in his head. Tell him how you are leading a frugal life so you can achieve retirement early. That is really all you can do. Unless he asks for help.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19928 on: March 24, 2018, 03:01:09 PM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19929 on: March 24, 2018, 03:15:29 PM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19930 on: March 24, 2018, 03:27:04 PM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

Would it matter? A set of towels that you don't need at $30 is pretty much the same as a set of towels that you don't need for $10.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19931 on: March 26, 2018, 12:15:12 AM »
Coworker: "You're not allowed to retire until you're 67. The government won't let you."

Ummmmm, yeah, fuck off. This is why he's 50 & has no assets to his name.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19932 on: March 26, 2018, 06:32:56 AM »
Coworker was talking about her weekend and how she just happened to be walking past the (very expensive) revolving restaurant in the city and decided to have dinner there “just cuz it was a nice day, and why not?” She makes $30k a year. Sigh.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19933 on: March 26, 2018, 07:37:34 AM »
Coworker: "You're not allowed to retire until you're 67. The government won't let you."

Ummmmm, yeah, fuck off. This is why he's 50 & has no assets to his name.

This is true if your retirement plan is social security (technically 62, I guess). Sad though, if they actually believe the "gub'ment" won't let you retire before that...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19934 on: March 26, 2018, 09:06:59 AM »
Coworker: "You're not allowed to retire until you're 67. The government won't let you."

Ummmmm, yeah, fuck off. This is why he's 50 & has no assets to his name.

This is true if your retirement plan is social security (technically 62, I guess). Sad though, if they actually believe the "gub'ment" won't let you retire before that...

Maybe they are the type that functions on heresay rather than facts. Not a good way to live life.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19935 on: March 26, 2018, 09:38:50 AM »
This one is from last September, when Apple announced their latest batch of fancy new stuff. The morning after the announcement a coworker (who was always coming in with some cool new gadget) excitedly cornered me...

CW: "Are you getting an iPhone X!?"
Me: "Uh, no."
CW: (disappointed) "Oh. What about the new Apple TV, the fifth generation? I'm getting it so I can watch my library in 4k..."
Me: "Nope." (then think for a second...) "But if you want to sell your old one I might take it off your hands" (for a deal, since you obviously don't care about money)
CW: "Sure! I have the first gen, the third gen, and the fourth gen. Which one?"

He jumped ship before I could close the deal (don't really need an Apple TV anyways), but good lord, how much stuff do you buy man?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19936 on: March 26, 2018, 09:55:47 AM »
Coworker:  Oh, my neighborhood would be a great place for you to buy in.  Lots of smaller homes.

So I look up the neighborhood on Zillow.  Smallest house I found was 3200 sq ft. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19937 on: March 30, 2018, 02:17:49 AM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

I had similar thoughts.  First I thought "who goes to K-Mart?" and then I thought "wait, there are still K-Marts?"

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19938 on: March 30, 2018, 05:53:29 AM »
Got to chatting with a coworker yesterday about retirement contributions and she told me about a method she has been using for two years to get a “better” return.  She contributes 5% to get the full employer match, which isn’t great but at least she’s getting all the available free money, so points for that.

But then it took a turn for the worse.  She has been taking out loans from her retirement account and honestly thought that the 3% interest rate was money that she was “making” because more went back into the retirement account than what she took out.  And that it was good because it was way more than the 0.1% that her savings accounts makes.

The story has a happy ending though! It took a few minutes to explain the 6-8% return from the market that she was missing out on with this strategy and that the 3% interest that was going back into her retirement account was her money anyway so she wasn’t “making” anything.  She’s as smart person, but had a fundamental misunderstanding of how market returns and retirement account loans work. So now she’s done taking any new loans and is working on how much to increase her contributions instead to get that money into her account fro the beginning. We even started talking about which funds to put money into and the contribution cap.  Got high hopes for this one!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19939 on: March 30, 2018, 06:16:11 AM »
Got to chatting with a coworker yesterday about retirement contributions and she told me about a method she has been using for two years to get a “better” return.  She contributes 5% to get the full employer match, which isn’t great but at least she’s getting all the available free money, so points for that.

But then it took a turn for the worse.  She has been taking out loans from her retirement account and honestly thought that the 3% interest rate was money that she was “making” because more went back into the retirement account than what she took out.  And that it was good because it was way more than the 0.1% that her savings accounts makes.

The story has a happy ending though! It took a few minutes to explain the 6-8% return from the market that she was missing out on with this strategy and that the 3% interest that was going back into her retirement account was her money anyway so she wasn’t “making” anything.  She’s as smart person, but had a fundamental misunderstanding of how market returns and retirement account loans work. So now she’s done taking any new loans and is working on how much to increase her contributions instead to get that money into her account fro the beginning. We even started talking about which funds to put money into and the contribution cap.  Got high hopes for this one!

Oh, man.  My former TPA/Retirement Plan Administrator heart just broke for her.  I saw too many brokers and advisors encouraging people to take loans against their retirement accounts like they were a revolving credit card or checking account.  I would do the behind the scenes administration and see people with low balances and outstanding loans.  Shame, shame.  And not in a finger-wagging way... in a "it's a shame" kind of way.  It would make me sad.

"Set it and forget it" was the best advice I ever got.  And looking back now, as much as I HATED retirement plan administration... I thank my lucky stars I fell into it because I started saving early.  Probably wouldn't have otherwise.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19940 on: March 30, 2018, 08:07:40 AM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

Would it matter? A set of towels that you don't need at $30 is pretty much the same as a set of towels that you don't need for $10.
Sorry, that was just a snarky comment about the finances of KMart as a company.  They have closed all of their stores in my area.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19941 on: March 30, 2018, 12:27:41 PM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

Would it matter? A set of towels that you don't need at $30 is pretty much the same as a set of towels that you don't need for $10.
Sorry, that was just a snarky comment about the finances of KMart as a company.  They have closed all of their stores in my area.

Oh shit! K-mart still exists?

The last time I was in one of those stores it felt more like a flea market than a big-box store, and that was at least 5 years ago. I thought it was overpriced even though half the crap had a clearance sticker and the other half had no discernable pricetag. Open boxes, unfolded clothes lying around and even some broken products on the shelves. Employees were like meerkats. Sightings were rare and if one popped up and saw you, they were gone again.

How is this place still in business?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19942 on: March 30, 2018, 02:58:03 PM »
Kmart is quite different on this side of the globe. They seem to specialise in high end looking, low end prices. But they're still cheap crap at the end of the day. Don't think they'll be out of business anytime soon

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19943 on: April 01, 2018, 04:28:45 PM »
Co-worker, an intern transferring over to full time in several months, was asking another co-worker about auto-loans. He apparently already has his new car picked out. He had not purchased his new car, but was asking the other co-worker if he could get the dealer financing to start his loan payments after he starts in several months. Older coworker said "Sure, everything is negotiable." Meanwhile, intern co-worker, "Yeah, it seems doable, they will still be charging interest until I start paying."

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19944 on: April 02, 2018, 08:55:15 AM »
Co-worker excitedly announced he was going to KMart after work. I asked what he intended buying and he said 'anything I want!'. Just a spend for entertainment exercise by the sound of it.
Is it sad that I assumed the coworker was going to KMart for a "going out of business" sale?

Would it matter? A set of towels that you don't need at $30 is pretty much the same as a set of towels that you don't need for $10.
Sorry, that was just a snarky comment about the finances of KMart as a company.  They have closed all of their stores in my area.

Oh shit! K-mart still exists?

The last time I was in one of those stores it felt more like a flea market than a big-box store, and that was at least 5 years ago. I thought it was overpriced even though half the crap had a clearance sticker and the other half had no discernable pricetag. Open boxes, unfolded clothes lying around and even some broken products on the shelves. Employees were like meerkats. Sightings were rare and if one popped up and saw you, they were gone again.

How is this place still in business?

The stores definitely varied. Our local store was well kept until the day it closed. Fair prices, decent stuff for a discount store, and a heck of a lot easier to get in and out of than a WalMart. Then our KMart closed.

I visited other stores in surrounding counties and they were dumps. If that was a the morn then no wonder nobody wanted to shop there.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19945 on: April 05, 2018, 09:17:53 AM »
Went on travel with 5 of my coworkers this week and it was depressing.

Two of our coworkers didn't go with us, but I found out that one is 64 and the other 68, with neither planning on retiring anytime soon because of how poorly they've managed their finances.

My supervisor and his wife (also in management) have a combined income of in excess of $225k and live paycheck to paycheck.

On expressing how "I can't even imagine working at age 68" another coworker (in her mid-50's) said "I will have to work until I'm 72." I replied, "What do you mean have to?" She went on a rant about how they can't save anything and excuse after excuse. I was just sitting there thinking, I sure hope that your health even allows you to work that long if that's your plan.

One of my coworkers is in her early 40's with a husband who is retired military. I actually presented MMM to her a few weeks ago and she seemed excited. Unfortunately they LOVE to spend money. Despite trying to sell her on the fact that she has a massive leg up (the pension being equivalent to a risk free $650k if it was invested), I've seen nothing to show she's actually interested. I told her I would answer any questions she had, but if she didn't ask, I wasn't going to preach to her.

Another coworker is in her early 30's. We drove to the site in her $60k Tahoe. I texted my wife and we figured out that every single car we've owned in our lives (8 total cars, we're in our mid 30's) we'd still paid less than that in total. Anyway, on the way they stopped at Starbucks where she spilled her drink in her clown car. And then freaked out about; which I suppose is understandable when your car costs sixty thousand dollars! We went out to dinner the other night and watched her parallel park. She was super careful about not hitting the curb. Turns out her wheels were $1000 each. She's mentioned Dave Ramsey a few times which I suppose is a positive, but actually saving seems to be a foreign concept as long as you're not "in debt."

I've decided we'll just keep our mouth shut about finances from here on out. I imagine I'll end up retiring before every single one of them except the 68 year old.

Based on the Ramsey name-dropping, it sounds as though your younger co-worker deserves at least some credit for saving up and paying cash for her Tahoe. Or she could be like me and just listen to it for pure entertainment.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19946 on: April 05, 2018, 10:04:00 AM »
My company just released (internally) some statistics about employee utilization of benefits. Apparently 86% of employees participate in the 401k plan. Which sounds great, until you find out that the company contributes 3% of every employee's salary, pre-match, regardless of employee contribution. As in, even if you contribute 0%, you still get 3% from the company. Every employee is automatically opted in when they're hired.

In other words, ~2500 employees went out of their way to opt out of free money.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19947 on: April 05, 2018, 12:30:13 PM »
i have an older, more senior coworker i spend a lot of time with, as we're the only two women in our immediate office. i also know roughly what she makes, since we work for the federal government and pay grades are automatically openly displayed in a lot of programs, like e-mail. CW earns roughly double what i do, but is constantly broke because she spends her money without any thought at all -- i.e. paying $3 for a toasted bagel with cream cheese at starbucks every morning instead of spending $3 on a week's worth of bagels and cream cheese at the grocery store.

she and her husband have been married for about five years, but they're still paying off her engagement ring. they didn't buy a wedding ring for her at the time because they couldn't afford any she wanted, but a couple of months ago it really started to bother her that she didn't have one. she told me she worked hard, and she deserved to treat herself every now and then. which i mean, yeah, i agree with that -- but not when you've also just told me you have less than a dollar in savings. you don't deserve things you haven't earned.

so she shops around, and ends up getting not one - because again, she deserves it -- but TWO wedding bands, each studded with diamonds, to wear with her engagement ring. she financed both rings, so now, although she can flash around something really shiny and pretty any time she gestures, she's carrying the equivalent of $7K in debt on her hand every day.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19948 on: April 05, 2018, 12:34:18 PM »
My company just released (internally) some statistics about employee utilization of benefits. Apparently 86% of employees participate in the 401k plan. Which sounds great, until you find out that the company contributes 3% of every employee's salary, pre-match, regardless of employee contribution. As in, even if you contribute 0%, you still get 3% from the company. Every employee is automatically opted in when they're hired.

In other words, ~2500 employees went out of their way to opt out of free money.

I can't come up with the words...

Literally, I wrote two responses to this story and erased them both because they didn't do justice to the level of stupidity.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #19949 on: April 05, 2018, 12:38:27 PM »
My company just released (internally) some statistics about employee utilization of benefits. Apparently 86% of employees participate in the 401k plan. Which sounds great, until you find out that the company contributes 3% of every employee's salary, pre-match, regardless of employee contribution. As in, even if you contribute 0%, you still get 3% from the company. Every employee is automatically opted in when they're hired.

In other words, ~2500 employees went out of their way to opt out of free money.
Are you sure all employees are eligible? It could be interns or part-time employees that don't get that benefit?