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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16950 on: March 08, 2017, 08:24:13 PM »
A neighbor lady who can't keep a job and whose husband might make 30k a year was telling my wife yesterday that they got a $4800 tax refund last week.   She is currently doing elder care for my wife's mother at 18 hours a week and 8.75 an hour and we chip in 3 bucks an hour to raise the rate a little.

  She was telling my wife this when she dropped by to get her money for the week so she could go buy groceries.  The tax refund?  Gone.  Trip to the local casino, new video games for her 2 adult sons who live at home and don't work and assorted other stupid spending.  They don't have 2 nickels to rub together, and every summer complain they don't have the money to take a vacation.   It's all I can do not to face palm her.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16951 on: March 08, 2017, 08:50:17 PM »
Seriously? That is a massively luxurious overabundance of bathrooms. I think one bathroom per two people is optimal.
Clearly you've never had to take a shit while someone else is in the shower.  No, sharing is not an acceptable option in that scenario to me. 

Sure, but I just hold it or if I know I'll be quick I just use it anyways and yell "Don't Look, I'm Poopin!" through the shower curtain.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16952 on: March 08, 2017, 09:04:25 PM »
Seriously? That is a massively luxurious overabundance of bathrooms. I think one bathroom per two people is optimal.

Clearly you've never had to take a shit while someone else is in the shower.  No, sharing is not an acceptable option in that scenario to me. 

You are right, that has never happened - and I speak as someone with intermittently malfunctioning bowels. I think there is an unspoken rule in my household that shitting takes priority above all other uses of the bathroom, and users of the bathroom for other activities are happy to make way on the understanding that the same courtesy is afford to them in turn. But seriously, the bathroom is taken up by someone else showering for fifteen minutes in the entire day. I am not having a second bathroom just in case I one day need a poop in those ten minutes. Other bathroom use occurrences take five minutes at a time max. I'm a big girl. I can hold it.

My husband spends a LOT of time in the bathroom. He seems to find it an ideal space for video games and general meditation. Sharing a bathroom, which we did for 6 years, was a nightmare. Never again.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16953 on: March 08, 2017, 10:54:16 PM »
Just overheard the guy sitting next to me pay 'the balance' of his kids birthday pay. $175 for a child under 10.

Is that a typo?  Did you mean "birthday party" (which would still be quite the party for a 10yo)?  Or does his kid earn money by staying alive?

Wow I didn't even catch that. I was reading quickly and my brain automatically filled in party instead of pay (and I agree, $175 for a 10 yo's birthday party is still way too much, let alone a $175 cash birthday present).


Hahaha, woops, yepp that was a typo. Definitely talking paRTy! Although the amount of cash kids get for their birthdays as 'gifts' could easily be considered pay for making it through another year.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16954 on: March 09, 2017, 12:14:26 AM »
Hiking the AT has changed my perspective on the bathroom situation. Pooping au natural just isn't that difficult or as scary as we think it is.
Wait till you've had to crap on a portaledge while multi-day climing.  You are often just a couple feet away from the action.  "Go to you're happy place!"

Good times.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16955 on: March 09, 2017, 02:22:07 AM »
If you want an easy to clean toilet, just go asian style. You only need a bucket of water to clean ;)

btw: If you are prone to have a hard go, try it: instead of sitting, squat. You wil be mightily (and happily) surprised.
Reason is that western "sitting" position is pressing on your inside and very effectivly blocking the way. Squatting does the opposite. Even just putting your legs up in sitting position will do a difference.

It is not only the food that explains why asien countries have far less chronic constipation problems.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16956 on: March 09, 2017, 04:22:48 AM »
For a household with 2 people 1 bathroom plus a separate toilet is ideal. My DH and I leave the bathroom unlocked for each other, as we need to go through it to reach the bedroom. But we don't share it when the other is on the toilet. I always knock in case of doubt.

Yes, I have experience with staying at other people's house who have only 1 bathroom and having to hold up my needs while one after the other takes a long shower, including drying off, drying hair, get dressed, put on makeup, etc. An extra toilet would solve the problem.

We have a small mountain cabin with only 1 toilet. When we have guests, we all need to wait for each other after breakfast when bowels start moving. In that place we can live with the inconvenience.

When having guests at your home regularly, it is an advantage having an simple guest bathroom. This bathroom only needs to be cleaned when receiving guests. This is what we had in our previous house. I think I have needed to use the second toilet twice in a bowel emergency. About running outside in an emergency, you still need to bring the toilet paper that is in the locked bathroom.


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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16957 on: March 09, 2017, 07:05:40 AM »
First- let me preface by saying this is not a complaint, more of a "wow, other people are so different from me". I greatly appreciate the gift, and this person's generosity.

My coworkers threw me a baby shower yesterday. They were amazing and I got a lot of really cute stuff, some amazing books, and some really practical things.

One coworker gave me two sleepers (in a very useful 6 mo and 9 mo size, rather than NB).  She left the tags on and included a packing receipt for the online store in case I wanted to exchange for different style/color/size.

Apparently these are some European brand made with organic cotton.  They cost $36 each! 
I went to the website and couldn't find a sale or anything like that.

$36 is more than I pay for almost every item of MY clothing.  For a baby sleeper!

So on one end, I'm amazed that she thinks highly enough of me to give my baby this kind of gift. On the other end- OMG almost $80 for two baby sleepers!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16958 on: March 09, 2017, 08:07:20 AM »
Have you and a loved one never had food poisening at the same time? Or the "flu"?

That was a fun night. We had a trash can on standby for... things that a trash can should never be used for.

No. I have not vomited since last millennium and I have no plans to in the future. As for the other option, it's never happened but I guess we could take turns??

Not the vomiting that was the problem... It was the other end. Thankfully it didn't end up being used for that, but we had it in position just in case. There were a few close calls that day. Scared me off of vegetables for a solid month.

Hiking the AT has changed my perspective on the bathroom situation. Pooping au natural just isn't that difficult or as scary as we think it is.

Yeah we hike and camp a lot so that may be part of the reason why we're not very squeamish about these things.

I don't disagree... until you get the days that it is 15*F/-10*C outside. And windy. Nope, no thanks.

(I've also spent weeks at a time without a toilet all together)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16959 on: March 09, 2017, 09:06:35 AM »
buy a suspended toilet like this one: http://cdn.stylisheve.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Suspended-Toilet-Designs-for-an-Original-Bathroom-Style_3.jpg

This forum is the best.

I want that toilet.

Personally, I think the secret to domestic bliss is at least two bathrooms (no kids) we actually have 2 1/2 and it's perfect because we then have a 1/2 on our main floor and two upstairs by the bedrooms. I would scale down to 2 if we had a 1-level house but I will NOT go to 1 for two people.

Seriously? That is a massively luxurious overabundance of bathrooms. I think one bathroom per two people is optimal.

Apparently people have really specific ideas about bathroom quantity (not just me!). Honestly, not sure we'd need more than 2.5 even if 5 people lived with us but, we want 2 for the 2 of us. Probably don't need the, both but want them.

Honestly we're house browsing at the moment and I find myself ruling out lots of houses for being too big that have 3-4 bathrooms. I really want a garage and it our area that seems to mean I want 5 bedrooms and 4 baths....but I don't.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16960 on: March 09, 2017, 09:23:53 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16961 on: March 09, 2017, 09:36:57 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.
I work from home. :(

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16962 on: March 09, 2017, 09:37:23 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

Real Mustachians work from home. (No commute!)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16963 on: March 09, 2017, 09:41:42 AM »
Ironically, this foam reveals some about potty habits, and much much more about "bathroom" habits. 

As in, apparently people use their bathroom for more than simply pottying and a 5 minute shower.


If I cannot wait 5 minutes to use the toilet, then I'm desperately ill and will use it anyway or kick the other person out, regardless of who else might be using the shower or be next in line for the toilet.  Obviously, some of you do things like makeup, hair, 30 minute showers, getting dressed, and other stuff(?) in the bathroom which then renders it unusable for its primary purpose....which is, going to the bathroom.


We had 7 people in a 2 bathroom house.  Even with the occasional sick kid on the bathroom floor all night issue, there was another bathroom.  You only used the bathroom privately for showering and using the toilet.  Your showers were 10 minutes (this includes shaving/putting on a towel or robe to go to your room).  Washing faces, brushing teeth, and make up (if you didn't do your makeup in your room), were done with the door open, so more than one person could be in there at a time, doing similar activities.    Hair, nails, getting dressed, and often makeup were done in your bedroom.  Suck it up buttercup...your 4 siblings all use this bathroom too. 


I still get mad that we bought a 3 bed, 2 bath house, only to find out we can't have kids. We are committed to downsizing to something with 2 bed, 1 bath...for the simple fact that I hate cleaning, and cleaning a bathroom is the worst.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16964 on: March 09, 2017, 09:44:14 AM »
I think this problem is also diminished here (UK) because there are no plug sockets in bathrooms - it's against building regulations (code)*. So you couldn't dry or curl your hair in the bathroom, even if you wanted to. So everyone does that stuff in bedrooms, meaning more time that the bathroom is 'free'.

* there are low voltage sockets for razors / toothbrushes.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16965 on: March 09, 2017, 09:49:28 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

My husband likes to calculate how much he gets paid for pooping at work.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16966 on: March 09, 2017, 09:59:31 AM »
I think this problem is also diminished here (UK) because there are no plug sockets in bathrooms - it's against building regulations (code)*. So you couldn't dry or curl your hair in the bathroom, even if you wanted to. So everyone does that stuff in bedrooms, meaning more time that the bathroom is 'free'.

* there are low voltage sockets for razors / toothbrushes.

As an electrician/homebuilder in the states, this whole concept brings a delightful, and fiendish smile to my face.  I typically end up with separate circuit feeding each bathroom. It used to be common to put 2 to 2-1/2 baths on the same receptacle circuit, but at this point, that would be nothing but problems, since there are times when a household has two blow dryers and a curling iron running at the same time.  The no receptacles in the bath idea would make life a hell of a lot easier for electricians. The flip side is that most women would be calling for your head on a pole, so there's that.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16967 on: March 09, 2017, 10:02:32 AM »
In the US, its code to have at least one outlet in the bathroom. Against code to have zero. However they have to be GFCI.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16968 on: March 09, 2017, 10:03:41 AM »
In the US, its code to have at least one outlet in the bathroom. Against code to have zero. However they have to be GFCI.
What's the code say about having an electrical panel in a bathroom?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16969 on: March 09, 2017, 10:09:50 AM »
What's the opposite of anal retentive?  Anal dismissive? 

I do understand that it can be unpleasant to use a bathroom immediately after someone else, but in that case, you could install an oversized bathroom fan -- much cheaper than another bathroom

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16970 on: March 09, 2017, 10:21:22 AM »
In the US, its code to have at least one outlet in the bathroom. Against code to have zero. However they have to be GFCI.
What's the code say about having an electrical panel in a bathroom?

No idea, but I bet it's verbotten.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16971 on: March 09, 2017, 10:41:55 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

That reminds me... I'll be back in a few minutes.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16972 on: March 09, 2017, 10:45:46 AM »
Your showers were 10 minutes (this includes shaving/putting on a towel or robe to go to your room).  Suck it up buttercup...your 4 siblings all use this bathroom too. 

I mean, if you HAVE to live like that sure, I'm not going to argue it can't be done.  But I'm not going to intentionally structure my life so that I can't read an article or three while on my throne in my own house without someone banging on the door for me to hurry up.  But I also am not going to have more than 2 kids, either, which makes it easier.  I spent my time in the Navy, I'm going to enjoy my Hollywood showers, thanks.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16973 on: March 09, 2017, 10:46:46 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

That reminds me... I'll be back in a few minutes.
Dude, smartphones.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16974 on: March 09, 2017, 10:49:42 AM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

That reminds me... I'll be back in a few minutes.
Dude, smartphones.
Probably impossible to study but I wonder how much longer pooping at work or in general increased because of the smartphone.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16975 on: March 09, 2017, 10:49:47 AM »
In the US, its code to have at least one outlet in the bathroom. Against code to have zero. However they have to be GFCI.
What's the code say about having an electrical panel in a bathroom?

No idea, but I bet it's verbotten.
My first home built in 1930 had the electrical panel in the bathroom, in a
small shelf area with a door. It was a difficult area to get to. It also had evidence of
Knob and Tube wiring in the attic, AFAIK it was no longer in use.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Knob-and-tube_wiring

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16976 on: March 09, 2017, 10:54:22 AM »
Your showers were 10 minutes (this includes shaving/putting on a towel or robe to go to your room).  Suck it up buttercup...your 4 siblings all use this bathroom too. 

I mean, if you HAVE to live like that sure, I'm not going to argue it can't be done.  But I'm not going to intentionally structure my life so that I can't read an article or three while on my throne in my own house without someone banging on the door for me to hurry up.  But I also am not going to have more than 2 kids, either, which makes it easier.  I spent my time in the Navy, I'm going to enjoy my Hollywood showers, thanks.

 I put a hinged mirror on the wall outside our bathroom, I have a string that allows two adjustments.
In one position I can view the TV from the bathtub, in the other from the toilet. I use it 'regularly'
 Nascar goes the wrong way though!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16977 on: March 09, 2017, 10:59:09 AM »
Your showers were 10 minutes (this includes shaving/putting on a towel or robe to go to your room).  Suck it up buttercup...your 4 siblings all use this bathroom too. 

I mean, if you HAVE to live like that sure, I'm not going to argue it can't be done.  But I'm not going to intentionally structure my life so that I can't read an article or three while on my throne in my own house without someone banging on the door for me to hurry up.  But I also am not going to have more than 2 kids, either, which makes it easier.  I spent my time in the Navy, I'm going to enjoy my Hollywood showers, thanks.

 I put a hinged mirror on the wall outside our bathroom, I have a string that allows two adjustments.
In one position I can view the TV from the bathtub, in the other from the toilet. I use it 'regularly'
 Nascar goes the wrong way though!

So you use the tub and toilet with the door open?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16978 on: March 09, 2017, 11:10:59 AM »
Since we've clearly all gotten comfortable with each other here...

We live in a condo with only one bathroom. It's a loft. We can hear (and smell) EVERYTHING. So 1) the secret code is: could you put some music on, I have to do something...., or 2) if one person is in the shower, we sneak over to the concierge's bathroom near the garbage chute.

I don't care about sharing space while #1, but #2 is me-time and I don't really want anyone to be within ear-shot. Nervous poo-er I guess.

Wow, I feel like I just shared personal info with a few thousands of my new best friends.

Now you know.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16979 on: March 09, 2017, 11:22:30 AM »
All this talk about bathrooms.... seriously I encourage everyone here to spend a good amount of time in a rural village in India, after having taken a 3rd class train ride overnight to this village. Afterwards you'll be happy that you only need to wait 10 minutes because your roommate is showering and you need to poop.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16980 on: March 09, 2017, 11:29:28 AM »
I dunno... bathrooms are my least favorite to clean and having twice as many pretty much means twice as much cleaning (since bathroom usage tends to scale up in proportion to available bathrooms- or each toilet may get used half as often, but they will probably each be used sometime within the cleaning timeframe). 

If I ever build a bathroom, the number one criteria will be easy cleanability.  I am still considering  designing and patenting my ingenious new toilet design with no nooks, crannies, hinges, etc.  I'll put a drain in the floor and hose everything down with a pressure washer. Ohhh yeah

Don't worry, the MMM forumhas led me to a solution for that one. This amazing thread (http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/ask-a-mustachian/advice-for-making-your-home-interior-easier-to-clean-and-maintain) has recommended Don Aslett's 'Make Your House Do The Housework' several times. I bought it, and he advocates (to a slightly excessive degree, perhaps) suspending everything and not mixing surfaces more than you have to. So you tile your entire bathroom and buy a suspended toilet like this one: http://cdn.stylisheve.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Suspended-Toilet-Designs-for-an-Original-Bathroom-Style_3.jpg

This forum is the best.

This toilet is supposedly designed to be as easy to clean as possible. As you see, all the parts are attached to the wall, not eachother.  http://standard.jetsgroup.com/en/Products/Toilets-and-urinals/Pearl.aspx

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16981 on: March 09, 2017, 12:17:54 PM »
Hiking the AT has changed my perspective on the bathroom situation. Pooping au natural just isn't that difficult or as scary as we think it is.

Hahaha, good on you man! I thru-hiked the AT and only pooped "au natural" twice. The rest of the time I managed to hold it until I got to a shelter/privy!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16982 on: March 09, 2017, 12:31:19 PM »
What's the opposite of anal retentive?  Anal dismissive?

Anal expulsive.

I'm not makin that up.  It's Freud.
https://www.alleydog.com/glossary/definition.php?term=Anal-Expulsive

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16983 on: March 09, 2017, 12:45:05 PM »
All this talk about bathrooms.... seriously I encourage everyone here to spend a good amount of time in a rural village in India, after having taken a 3rd class train ride overnight to this village. Afterwards you'll be happy that you only need to wait 10 minutes because your roommate is showering and you need to poop.

Hahaha, that's what I was thinking.  Been there, done that.  27 hour 3rd class train ride.  They had a bathroom though, but it was just a hole in the floor of the train. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16984 on: March 09, 2017, 01:04:52 PM »
Hahaha, that's what I was thinking.  Been there, done that.  27 hour 3rd class train ride.  They had a bathroom though, but it was just a hole in the floor of the train.

Sounds like a shitty trip! 😂

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16985 on: March 09, 2017, 01:19:58 PM »
Hiking the AT has changed my perspective on the bathroom situation. Pooping au natural just isn't that difficult or as scary as we think it is.

Hahaha, good on you man! I thru-hiked the AT and only pooped "au natural" twice. The rest of the time I managed to hold it until I got to a shelter/privy!
I used a couple privies and then never again. Those things are nasty! There was shit, and blood, and who knows what else on the walls. And those privies were dispersed across a large geographical area so I don't think it was "just those privies." It makes me skin crawl just thinking about it.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16986 on: March 09, 2017, 01:24:46 PM »
Restroom situations while camping/less developed countries have no bearing on what I want in my home.
For 2 people: 2 restrooms; for 3-4 people: 3 restrooms.  4 would be a luxury, but I don't really want to clean that.
I haven't lived with more than 4 people.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16987 on: March 09, 2017, 01:28:41 PM »
Real Mustachians poop at work.

My husband likes to calculate how much he gets paid for pooping at work.

In other words, food poisoning = pay raise?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16988 on: March 09, 2017, 01:38:26 PM »
All this talk about bathrooms.... seriously I encourage everyone here to spend a good amount of time in a rural village in India, after having taken a 3rd class train ride overnight to this village. Afterwards you'll be happy that you only need to wait 10 minutes because your roommate is showering and you need to poop.
Ha, we went to Hong Kong and had a 5 liter electric boiler with a 10 minute timer - it wasn't hot but then again by the time it was empty you could sit down on the toilet (under the boiler) to lather up and wait for it to heat up again. Did I tell you my wife was pregnant at the time and once kicked me out halfway through?
Needless to say the bathroom was efficient at 4sqft. My knees either stuck out the door while "showering" or were banging up on to the sink which was far too large for a bathroom that size.

The bed was also a nice addition where it was claimed to be 6 feet long and my feet stuck out at least 30cm while I'm 6 foot 1. We did choose a hotel for under 25$ a night so we had it coming... We were in luck too, the other available room had a hole in the ground for a toilet  :D

We also went to mainland China (Dongguan province), stayed with my BIL at a large appartment and could shower daily without problem (under the leaking boiler on the balcony too, if you so chose). The balcony had a nice view on a plant from Lenovo :D
Best part about the inlaws is that they have some property here and there with renters (one of them rents for more than 30 years now). They are a lot more mustachian than we are over here and not even out of necessity.
Funny thing is that it's a bit of a custom to lend newlyweds money for a home (if your family is at least somewhat well off). They buy (or build) a small 2 or 3 level appartment and rent a few floors out. Meanwhile they pay back the family loan and end up living in the unrented part without noticble cost...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16989 on: March 09, 2017, 01:41:06 PM »
In the US, its code to have at least one outlet in the bathroom. Against code to have zero. However they have to be GFCI.
What's the code say about having an electrical panel in a bathroom?

No idea, but I bet it's verbotten.

I haven't dealt with that one in a few decades, but IIRC,  No to bathrooms, stairways, landings, closets, etc.... Plus a minimum working space and headroom in the area in front of the panel, like 3' sq. of floor space, and 6'-6" of headroom.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16990 on: March 09, 2017, 03:37:04 PM »
I dunno... bathrooms are my least favorite to clean and having twice as many pretty much means twice as much cleaning (since bathroom usage tends to scale up in proportion to available bathrooms- or each toilet may get used half as often, but they will probably each be used sometime within the cleaning timeframe). 

If I ever build a bathroom, the number one criteria will be easy cleanability.  I am still considering  designing and patenting my ingenious new toilet design with no nooks, crannies, hinges, etc.  I'll put a drain in the floor and hose everything down with a pressure washer. Ohhh yeah

Don't worry, the MMM forumhas led me to a solution for that one. This amazing thread (http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/ask-a-mustachian/advice-for-making-your-home-interior-easier-to-clean-and-maintain) has recommended Don Aslett's 'Make Your House Do The Housework' several times. I bought it, and he advocates (to a slightly excessive degree, perhaps) suspending everything and not mixing surfaces more than you have to. So you tile your entire bathroom and buy a suspended toilet like this one: http://cdn.stylisheve.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Suspended-Toilet-Designs-for-an-Original-Bathroom-Style_3.jpg

This forum is the best.

This toilet is supposedly designed to be as easy to clean as possible. As you see, all the parts are attached to the wall, not eachother.  http://standard.jetsgroup.com/en/Products/Toilets-and-urinals/Pearl.aspx

Can the hinge part be removed and hosed down?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16991 on: March 09, 2017, 05:48:15 PM »
All this talk about bathrooms.... seriously I encourage everyone here to spend a good amount of time in a rural village in India, after having taken a 3rd class train ride overnight to this village. Afterwards you'll be happy that you only need to wait 10 minutes because your roommate is showering and you need to poop.

 I've dropped turds where there was an outline for your feet and a hole in between and I hadn't showered in a week... but that doesn't mean in my life of relatively luxury that I want that at home. Perspective is good, but you don't have to model everything you've been exposed to.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16992 on: March 09, 2017, 05:58:15 PM »
Will someone- ANYONE- PLEASE post something you Heard at Work??

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16993 on: March 09, 2017, 06:12:32 PM »
Will someone- ANYONE- PLEASE post something you Heard at Work??

Well, I was in the restroom, and from the next stall I heard....


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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16994 on: March 09, 2017, 07:16:47 PM »
For a household with 2 people 1 bathroom plus a separate toilet is ideal.

My BIL and his wife have one bathroom and a separate toilet.  But they also have have six kids.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16995 on: March 09, 2017, 08:40:49 PM »
I'm so amazed by these pooping issues....

I grew up in a house of 4 (mum, dad, 2 kids) and we never had an issue with our one toilet.

Although our toilet was separate to the bathroom. So you could poop while someone showered without being in the same room, they would just get a little cooked when you flushed and stole all the cold water!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16996 on: March 09, 2017, 09:32:09 PM »
We once stayed in a homestay in Georgetown, Penang, Malaysia.   Some of the Chinese clans have family jetty's over the water that have been there for generations.  We stayed in a home of the Chew family's jetty.  I woke up the first morning and went to take my morning constitutional, squatting over a hole under the shower head.   I heard a loud splash, and walked out onto the porch to wave goodbye to a big turd going out with the tide.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16997 on: March 09, 2017, 09:48:37 PM »
I'm so amazed by these pooping issues....

I grew up in a house of 4 (mum, dad, 2 kids) and we never had an issue with our one toilet.

Although our toilet was separate to the bathroom. So you could poop while someone showered without being in the same room, they would just get a little cooked when you flushed and stole all the cold water!
Ditto. My mom raised us two kids through out teenage years in a house with one toilet. I don't ever recall bathroom time being a big issue. I guess our family time didn't include explosive diarrhea.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16998 on: March 09, 2017, 11:17:39 PM »
My coworker mentioned that he's going to bring his six-year-old daughter to the office for the day a few weeks from now. This will be fun and cute; the kid is PUMPED about it and I don't mind at all. Here's the anti-mustachian part:

CW: She has it all planned out. We are going to stop at Tim Hortons on the way and get a donut. For lunch, we will go back to Tim Hortons so she can have a wrap.
Me: oh, fun! (cringe)

The kid is clearly conditioned to this, as evidenced by her dad's daily behaviour. Out for fast food nearly every day for lunch, commutes in brand new clown truck, big mortgage, pretty spendy lifestyle from what he's mentioned. He's a great guy and very hard worker; it just makes me sad to see him waste so much money.

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« Reply #16999 on: March 10, 2017, 12:09:05 AM »
My coworker mentioned that he's going to bring his six-year-old daughter to the office for the day a few weeks from now. This will be fun and cute; the kid is PUMPED about it and I don't mind at all. Here's the anti-mustachian part:

CW: She has it all planned out. We are going to stop at Tim Hortons on the way and get a donut. For lunch, we will go back to Tim Hortons so she can have a wrap.
Me: oh, fun! (cringe)

The kid is clearly conditioned to this, as evidenced by her dad's daily behaviour. Out for fast food nearly every day for lunch, commutes in brand new clown truck, big mortgage, pretty spendy lifestyle from what he's mentioned. He's a great guy and very hard worker; it just makes me sad to see him waste so much money.

Probably too young - but what about the childs math?
After all, at work you often need math! So train it and let the child add up what the cost for the eating stuff is as long as its at his dads work place. And how much hours Daddy has to work for it.