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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16500 on: January 10, 2017, 02:21:46 AM »
I know. I was the out of the loop kid growing up too. I became a more independent person for it but I know our tween is motivated to be more social than DW or I at that age... Not sure it will grow his independence or just frustrate him. His best tween friend got a new iPhone this past Christmas. -eye roller-

I'm open to any suggestions from everyone...
Moto G's are pretty good phones. And while not an iphone should be acceptable enough to be in the hip category. The Samsung galaxy class has some models aimed to young people as well, huawei honor is also a cheaper sub brand of huawei aimed at younger people. Ask what kind of phones his friends are using (off course eliminating the expensive iphone).

Perhaps devise a 'point' system, offer him a choice between three phones at three different prices and 'points' and then let him earn it via chores in the house/garden.

Good moment to teach him about budgetting: go with a pre paid data plan in the beginning so he learnes to control his data use (explain that on wi fi is 'free' but the mobiel date costs money). Texts and data is what they use, so no need for lots of call minutes. Here in Belgium they have pre paid bundles targetted to teenagers, 10 euro for insane data and texts volume and it is good for a month. If they blow the volume in 10 days, well it will be wi fi only until the end of the month then ..
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16501 on: January 10, 2017, 05:15:29 AM »
I have started bringing my own lunch to work and eat it in the canteen with my colleagues who buy food there. Some people are asking why I do this. I have explained that a lunch with a fixed price makes that I tend to overeat. I also don't tolerate onions, so eating the soup causes me to get a bloating belly. And I also mention that I want to save 80 dollars a month. Then a colleague commented that our canteen is not expensive. No, it is not for what you get for it, but 80 dollars a month is still 880 dollars per year. Easily saved by bringing my own lunch. And I treat myself on a canteen lunch every now and then.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16502 on: January 10, 2017, 05:42:07 AM »
Moto G's are pretty good phones. And while not an iphone should be acceptable enough to be in the hip category. The Samsung galaxy class has some models aimed to young people as well, huawei honor is also a cheaper sub brand of huawei aimed at younger people. Ask what kind of phones his friends are using (off course eliminating the expensive iphone).
Unless it's a used iPhone, in which case I would look for used 16GB iPhone 6, 16GB iPhone SE, or 16GB iPhone 5s models that can be had for a reasonable amount of money. Unlike even the most expensive Android phones Apple supports its iPhones with new software and bugfixes for at least four to five years. You need to make sure that "Find my iPhone" is disabled before you hand over any money though, otherwise it'll be a very expensive brick (I would've said doorstop but it's so thin it slides right through). In other words: no eBay unless you can pick it up in person.

The other good thing about iPhones is that they're very high quality and can last very long if treated well. A significant percentage of Apple users doesn't keep theirs for more than two years, which means you can get two year old models for very good prices. The best time to buy is usually late September / early October, immediately after the latest and greatest iPhone had just been released. I bought my iPhone 6 Plus in September 2015 - a few days before the release of the 6s - for 60% of what the previous owner, who desperately needed money for a downpayment on the latest 64GB iPhone 6s Plus, paid for a mere 9 months earlier.  It's more than two years old now and still going strong, will be receiving updates for at least another two to three years, and the battery still last two full days of moderate or a full day of heavy use. My wife's is even better off: she's got an iPhone 6s that is covered by the most recent exchange program, which means somewhen around the end of this year, when her phone nears the two year mark, we'll get a brand-new battery for her phone for free :-)

iPhones can be the smart choice here if you get a good price for a used model.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16503 on: January 10, 2017, 09:28:23 AM »
I can attest to the long-living nature of the iphone. I get them through work, and my husband is still happily using a cast-off i-phone 4. I got a new 5 in, hmmm, 2012? So the 4 must be a couple of years older than that. It (and all apps) still works great, though he can't receive the very newest emotis, which is not a huge concern for a 36 year old.

A used iphone might also be acceptable as tween friends will assume parental hand-me-down. Not that I'm encouraging anyone to be swayed by what other people think, but I understand kids are very sensitive.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16504 on: January 10, 2017, 09:34:55 AM »
A used iphone might also be acceptable as tween friends will assume parental hand-me-down. Not that I'm encouraging anyone to be swayed by what other people think, but I understand kids are very sensitive.
This is what my parents did with my sister (19 and in college now).  She's rocking a 4S.

Oddly, iPhones tend to be the least-bad in terms of support and planned obsolescence.  It feels wrong, but it's true.  Most Android phones don't get updates past the one-year mark, and even flagship $700 ones tend to lose support after two years.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16505 on: January 10, 2017, 10:21:09 AM »
My son is using a iPhone 5, and it is fine, just a little slow and stuttery on one app he likes (Pokemon Go). 

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Unfortunately, that's not going to be the case for the current generation.  As all of your kid's friends get cell phones, they're going to start communicating constantly via text, and if yours isn't part of that communication circle, they are going to feel (and possibly be) very left out.

Agreed, it's the primary mode of communication now for teens and, as odd as it sounds, very helpful for socialization.  She has recieved last minute invites to places and is able to coordinate and schedule things.  At this point, the smartphone has gone from a luxury to a near necessary tool, and they don't have to be expensive. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16506 on: January 10, 2017, 10:31:45 AM »
A used iphone might also be acceptable as tween friends will assume parental hand-me-down. Not that I'm encouraging anyone to be swayed by what other people think, but I understand kids are very sensitive.
This is what my parents did with my sister (19 and in college now).  She's rocking a 4S.

Oddly, iPhones tend to be the least-bad in terms of support and planned obsolescence.  It feels wrong, but it's true.  Most Android phones don't get updates past the one-year mark, and even flagship $700 ones tend to lose support after two years.
The nice thing about android phones, though, is that there are independent developers out there that build new versions of the software for them, so many phones, especially flagship phones, can be updated long after the manufacturer (and carrier) abandon them.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16507 on: January 10, 2017, 10:51:11 AM »
A used iphone might also be acceptable as tween friends will assume parental hand-me-down. Not that I'm encouraging anyone to be swayed by what other people think, but I understand kids are very sensitive.
This is what my parents did with my sister (19 and in college now).  She's rocking a 4S.

Oddly, iPhones tend to be the least-bad in terms of support and planned obsolescence.  It feels wrong, but it's true.  Most Android phones don't get updates past the one-year mark, and even flagship $700 ones tend to lose support after two years.
The nice thing about android phones, though, is that there are independent developers out there that build new versions of the software for them, so many phones, especially flagship phones, can be updated long after the manufacturer (and carrier) abandon them.
This is very true, but most people don't want to mess with that, myself included (and I say that as an IT guy by trade and a tinkerer by nature).  It's also hard to gauge which phones will end up popular enough for such things.

EDIT: not trying to start some Apple v. Android food fight.  They both have their ups/downs and are for the most part these days equivalent.  I'm currently an iPhone user but have had Android phones for years before that.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16508 on: January 10, 2017, 12:54:37 PM »
A guy at work is just telling us he has purchased a bike for $10000 and is now trying to work out how to tell his wife. He is considering telling her he has quit smoking and he will use his smoking money to pay off the bike, but he was telling us this just after he came back from having a cigarette so not too sure how that will work out for him

 He also doesnt have a licence so the shop wont let him take the bike (that he is paying for) until he gets his learners permit

$10,000 on a presumably-new bike which is about to get dropped by a learner rider? Winning.

LAMS bikes tend to have solid re-sale value because there is always a cohort of new riders who need to do their time on a 650, but he could have had reasonable learner bike for a third of that price.

yes new, on 2% interest. He didnt want a second hand one because he wouldnt have been able to get a loan for it

And doesn't he deserve a new bike as a treat for quitting smoking...? Oh, wait.

It gets worse really, since earlier this year they refinanced their mortgage to consolidate all their debts (I think they had about 50k in personal loans/ car loans/ cc debt) and by the sounds of it they will be back in the same position in another 12 months

And he has now lost his job, so I am not too sure how he will go
Most dealerships have used motorcycles. I just picked up a 2013 with 2000 miles on it for 2k less than it is worth. Besides, if he needs a loan, he can't afford it, right?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16509 on: January 10, 2017, 01:01:51 PM »
A used iphone might also be acceptable as tween friends will assume parental hand-me-down. Not that I'm encouraging anyone to be swayed by what other people think, but I understand kids are very sensitive.
This is what my parents did with my sister (19 and in college now).  She's rocking a 4S.

Oddly, iPhones tend to be the least-bad in terms of support and planned obsolescence.  It feels wrong, but it's true.  Most Android phones don't get updates past the one-year mark, and even flagship $700 ones tend to lose support after two years.
The nice thing about android phones, though, is that there are independent developers out there that build new versions of the software for them, so many phones, especially flagship phones, can be updated long after the manufacturer (and carrier) abandon them.
This is very true, but most people don't want to mess with that, myself included (and I say that as an IT guy by trade and a tinkerer by nature).  It's also hard to gauge which phones will end up popular enough for such things.

EDIT: not trying to start some Apple v. Android food fight.  They both have their ups/downs and are for the most part these days equivalent.  I'm currently an iPhone user but have had Android phones for years before that.

I feel the same way.  I used to be an Android tinkerer, rooting and installing ROMs found on xda.  It can be fun, but not only is there bugs in the underlying OSs, additional bugs can creep in along the whole process, as well as additional incompatibilities.  It eventually got tiresome for me, and I found myself moving to a used iPhone 6 a while back. I'm happy to have something that should "just work" for much longer than the average Android shelf life.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16510 on: January 10, 2017, 02:36:44 PM »
The nice thing about android phones, though, is that there are independent developers out there that build new versions of the software for them, so many phones, especially flagship phones, can be updated long after the manufacturer (and carrier) abandon them.
This is very true, but most people don't want to mess with that, myself included (and I say that as an IT guy by trade and a tinkerer by nature).  It's also hard to gauge which phones will end up popular enough for such things.

EDIT: not trying to start some Apple v. Android food fight.  They both have their ups/downs and are for the most part these days equivalent.  I'm currently an iPhone user but have had Android phones for years before that.

I feel the same way.  I used to be an Android tinkerer, rooting and installing ROMs found on xda.  It can be fun, but not only is there bugs in the underlying OSs, additional bugs can creep in along the whole process, as well as additional incompatibilities.  It eventually got tiresome for me, and I found myself moving to a used iPhone 6 a while back. I'm happy to have something that should "just work" for much longer than the average Android shelf life.

Thirded. I've been a Linux user since the 90s. I know and love tinkering. And I use an iPhone because I'd rather my smartphone be an appliance rather than a project.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16511 on: January 10, 2017, 02:48:15 PM »

Thirded. I've been a Linux user since the 90s. I know and love tinkering. And I use an iPhone because I'd rather my smartphone be an appliance rather than a project.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16512 on: January 10, 2017, 03:00:48 PM »
Independent / third-party ROMs for android phones do exist, but they tend to be hobbyist in nature. If you're the guy who runs linux on all your machines, great! If you just want basic shit, not so great.

The real issue isn't features, it's security. You can live without features. But every time a really bad bug gets discovered for android, a bunch of people who paid $700 just a year or a year and a half ago get told "sorry, we don't care about you."

Every high-end phone these days can live a long time - aluminum is strong - but iphones and amazon devices are the only ones that get updated for more than three years are so. (Yep, amazon really cares about security, believe it or not.) Even nexus/pixel devices will only get maybe two years of support. Anything from samsung might get a year and a half. Anything from anyone else ... you'll be lucky to get three software updates before they drop you. And then the next big security bug that gets discovered affects you, forever, until you trade the phone in.

Iphones have a high resale value for a reason.

In any event, fortunately/unfortunately (pick one), in today's connected world, a young teen or just-before-teen (tween?) isn't getting a phone to keep up with the joneses, it's to constantly talk to classmates and friends. If you remember running around outside all day with your friends, today you'd be IMing them all day. To look down on it as not needed, because "you don't need to call us [parents] because you're only going to school and sports practice," is doing them a disservice. If you don't want them to constantly talk with their friends, that's all well and good, but you should know precisely what you're forbidding, and not misunderstand the situation.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16513 on: January 10, 2017, 03:18:02 PM »

Thirded. I've been a Linux user since the 90s. I know and love tinkering. And I use an iPhone because I'd rather my smartphone be an appliance rather than a project.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16514 on: January 10, 2017, 04:13:25 PM »
Today I saw a former co-worker who retired from the government and now works for Ford:

FCW:  Things are great, I get a company car and I get a great deal on leasing 3 Ford vehicles.  So I plan on one for myself and getting my kids each one.  I'm probably going to get my daughter a new Mustang.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16515 on: January 11, 2017, 01:45:49 AM »
I feel the same way.  I used to be an Android tinkerer, rooting and installing ROMs found on xda.  It can be fun, but not only is there bugs in the underlying OSs, additional bugs can creep in along the whole process, as well as additional incompatibilities.  It eventually got tiresome for me, and I found myself moving to a used iPhone 6 a while back. I'm happy to have something that should "just work" for much longer than the average Android shelf life.

I bought a (then) last-year's model of a Samsung Galaxy S4 active, with Android system. It does indeed have some stupid flaws. E.g. If I choose my phone to switch automatically to the fastest mobile data net (4G), my normal phone coverage goes down a lot. So much that I can't have a decent phone conversation in a place with suboptimal coverage, like my work. If I switch to my phone to only use the slow data net, I have excellent phone coverage. Earlier I used to switch between these systems, but now the switching takes so much time, that it is not reliable anymore. It has become an issue.
The external storage card was blocked to access by downloaded apps. I have earlier researched the internet and hacked the phone to fix that, which worked for some time. But after a year or so the WIFI stopped working. At some other time the sound during phone conversations didn't work. The phone had to be repaired twice (still guarantee, so for free).

Compared to my previous phone, which was an older LG Android with too little memory to store anything at all, I love my current phone for the parts that work properly. But I find that connection between data net and phone net extremely annoying.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16516 on: January 11, 2017, 01:49:22 AM »
Today I saw a former co-worker who retired from the government and now works for Ford:

FCW:  Things are great, I get a company car and I get a great deal on leasing 3 Ford vehicles.  So I plan on one for myself and getting my kids each one.  I'm probably going to get my daughter a new Mustang.

NR thinks to self, and you wonder why you needed to get a high paying post government retirement job.
What a great employee for Ford he is, working, getting paid and then giving most of his paycheck back to them! In the beginning of the industrial revolution you had factories providing housing for their workers and company stores selling food and other items to the workers. Some had good intentions with this but for most it was just a way of getting as much as possible of the paid wages back and thus getting the labor as cheaply as possible. Seems to me that Ford has at least one history major working for them
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16517 on: January 11, 2017, 02:15:39 AM »
Today I saw a former co-worker who retired from the government and now works for Ford:

FCW:  Things are great, I get a company car and I get a great deal on leasing 3 Ford vehicles.  So I plan on one for myself and getting my kids each one.  I'm probably going to get my daughter a new Mustang.

NR thinks to self, and you wonder why you needed to get a high paying post government retirement job.

I just talked to a salesman at Ford - he has a brand new vehicle from them too. Said he gets a nice employee discount, but yeah, I'm sure it's still cheaper to drive a used beater.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16518 on: January 11, 2017, 06:25:57 AM »
Today I saw a former co-worker who retired from the government and now works for Ford:

FCW:  Things are great, I get a company car and I get a great deal on leasing 3 Ford vehicles.  So I plan on one for myself and getting my kids each one.  I'm probably going to get my daughter a new Mustang.

NR thinks to self, and you wonder why you needed to get a high paying post government retirement job.

I just talked to a salesman at Ford - he has a brand new vehicle from them too. Said he gets a nice employee discount, but yeah, I'm sure it's still cheaper to drive a used beater.

I friend of mine has a father who owns a good running car company. They could buy a Volvo cross country super big car for a good price. But they still had to take up a big loan on it. I really don't understand the concept of taking up car loans. The price of a car is so easily reduced to what you can actually afford.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16519 on: January 11, 2017, 12:51:11 PM »
Overheard at work. Coworker's do-nothing substance abusing son bought a car. She signed for the loan. Never paid her anything for the car. Now the car is 6-7 months behind on payments. She can't afford the car payment due to modest income and bills of her own.

I think I would have encouraged him to buy a used bicycle and deal with it...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16520 on: January 11, 2017, 01:56:53 PM »
Kind of an "overheard at work": Consultant guy in his 40s walks up to my desk and asks "have you used your iPad while working remote? I'm having issues accessing some of the applications through it.."
I respond: "I don't own an iPad"
Woo!  #millenialwithoutanipad

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16521 on: January 12, 2017, 06:20:12 AM »
Kind of an "overheard at work": Consultant guy in his 40s walks up to my desk and asks "have you used your iPad while working remote? I'm having issues accessing some of the applications through it.."
I respond: "I don't own an iPad"
Woo!  #millenialwithoutanipad

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16522 on: January 12, 2017, 07:39:32 AM »
Kind of an "overheard at work": Consultant guy in his 40s walks up to my desk and asks "have you used your iPad while working remote? I'm having issues accessing some of the applications through it.."
I respond: "I don't own an iPad"
Woo!  #millenialwithoutanipad

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lolol

My mobile device (smartphone) cost $50.   Can you get ipads that cheap?  I think that is where the brag is.  For many people who work, it isn't feasible/allowed to not have a smartphone.

(Also a millennial without any sort of tablet.)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16523 on: January 12, 2017, 07:58:17 AM »
Kind of an "overheard at work": Consultant guy in his 40s walks up to my desk and asks "have you used your iPad while working remote? I'm having issues accessing some of the applications through it.."
I respond: "I don't own an iPad"
Woo!  #millenialwithoutanipad

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My mobile device (smartphone) cost $50.   Can you get ipads that cheap?  I think that is where the brag is.  For many people who work, it isn't feasible/allowed to not have a smartphone.

(Also a millennial without any sort of tablet.)

Is it possible that an iPad or tablet is available from work? Per the original conversation it appears that the employee is assuming that FrugalFisherman10 also has an iPad. I know that I wouldn't assume that everyone within the office has one or would even ask specifically about an iPad unless I was fairly certain that it was commonplace.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16524 on: January 12, 2017, 08:02:41 AM »

Is it possible that an iPad or tablet is available from work? Per the original conversation it appears that the employee is assuming that FrugalFisherman10 also has an iPad. I know that I wouldn't assume that everyone within the office has one or would even ask specifically about an iPad unless I was fairly certain that it was commonplace.

I guess I was also projecting my own assumptions. Lots of people at my office work remotely on their Ipads, but our company doesn't issue them.  Because the Ipad is so commonplace it is not at all uncommon to ask someone specifically about an issue with them.  We use PCs at work though, and everyone has a laptop to take home. But not everyone likes using those and prefer their own device. As long as it is registered and has the security app on it, we can use them.  (The vast majority of people use Iphones as their BYOD, but you certainly don't have to. As long as your phone is running the version of the software required by security, you can use anything.  I've had many people ask me Iphone questions, which I can sometimes answer, but I just have a cheap Android. When I had to upgrade due to my operating system out of date the phones they suggested were all in the $500-$600 range; but I found one for $50.)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16525 on: January 12, 2017, 12:55:01 PM »
I was hoping she was joking (she wasn't...):

My boss has a very nice office overlooking a public park that has pretty trees etc. So she has her desk facing the window so she can look out whenever she wants. It's a beautiful view. However, this causes her to face away from the door and she doesn't know when people are walking in, waiting outside, etc.

My solution: Turn the desk to face the door and use the view as an excuse to get up off my butt throughout the work day.

Her solution: Purchase motorcycle parts and have a guy (paid for by her!) come in to attach the rear-view mirrors to her desk. After knocking one off because they are awkwardly placed out the side of her desk - she bought new ones and did it again!

To make things worse they look absolutely ridiculous. There was potential for an interesting decor idea, but it really didn't work out at all.

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« Reply #16526 on: January 12, 2017, 01:10:34 PM »
I was hoping she was joking (she wasn't...):

My boss has a very nice office overlooking a public park that has pretty trees etc. So she has her desk facing the window so she can look out whenever she wants. It's a beautiful view. However, this causes her to face away from the door and she doesn't know when people are walking in, waiting outside, etc.

My solution: Turn the desk to face the door and use the view as an excuse to get up off my butt throughout the work day.

Her solution: Purchase motorcycle parts and have a guy (paid for by her!) come in to attach the rear-view mirrors to her desk. After knocking one off because they are awkwardly placed out the side of her desk - she bought new ones and did it again!

To make things worse they look absolutely ridiculous. There was potential for an interesting decor idea, but it really didn't work out at all.

That's really cool in my book.  I'd never do that because I don't want people looking at my screen when they walk by my office. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16527 on: January 12, 2017, 01:21:25 PM »
I have another story, this time it's my wife contributing :-)

She's just started a new job and while she does try to bring her own lunch every day occasionally she does go out for lunch with her colleagues solely for the aspect of socializing and getting to know them, which makes sense.

Anyway, she was approached by one of her colleagues yesterday morning and asked whether or not she felt like going out to lunch later that day and how she felt about Sushi. Her response was somewhere along the lines of "Sure why not, I can't afford going out every day but it's been a while so let's do it". To which her colleague apparently responded "Yeah, I can't really afford it either but I checked my bank account on monday and realized I had a little bit of money left in my savings account, so this week I'm eating out every day!"
New twist to that story. Well, maybe not really twist, more like addendum ;)

Yesterday we've learned that abovementioned coworker has a second job, working at Starbucks on the weekends. And apparently she's not the only one, another coworker of my wife's is also serving (making?) coffee on the weekends. And they're making at least 50k from their first job.

If only they'd realize that they might be able to take their weekends off if they brought their lunches from home instead of spending $50-$70 each week...
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16528 on: January 12, 2017, 04:25:23 PM »
Not "overheard at work," this was said directly to me by a co-worker (who I had previously thought was frugal) when we were discussing Christmas plans:

"There are some really cheap last-minute flights to [somewhere in the Caribbean], my wife and I are thinking of flying down tomorrow and coming back Monday or Tuesday.  And once you get there, you don't have to spend much--the resort is only $500/night!"

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16529 on: January 12, 2017, 06:32:48 PM »
I spent about thirty minutes trying to get a couple of the guys to understand the difference between roth and traditional. One guy could not figure out why on their traditional 401k does't show how much taxes will be taken out when he withdrawals it n retirement. the other guy was pissed that the company match couldn't go into his roth. I tried explaining to him that his 100K salary plus what ever his wife makes as a physicians assistant probably has them in a pretty high tax bracket and he would be better off using the traditional anyway. I got "well taxes are just going to keep going up so I'll pay mine now. All them damn liberals."

Atleast they are putting money away I guess.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16530 on: January 12, 2017, 07:25:51 PM »
New colleague at work who I posted about before:

Pretty much everyone in the offce has been extolling the virues of bringing in lunch from home. One day this week he finally brought in sandwiches - and then went out to get something from the cafe because he was still hungry. Today he was back to eating out.

This morning he was putting his bottle of sparkling water in the freezer (??) when I was filling my water bottle from the cooler.

CW: I should really get into the habit of doing that but my water is sparkling.
Me: Yeah well, it's free, so I don't mind just having still water. (I don't really like sparkling water.)
CW: Well, I HOPE that you're not so impoverished that that would be a consideration.
Me: I'm not going to buy something we are provided for free.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16531 on: January 12, 2017, 10:42:50 PM »
I made a comment today to a coworker that "at least it's not too difficult to max out an IRA, as it's only $5500...."

That was when my coworker interjected, "It's not difficult when you live within your means, like you do. Not everyone does."

She freely admitted that she and her husband intend to get their finances in order as it's a top priority, but that she's "used to the income" and that "it's hard to pull back. I'm just used to a certain level of spending, it's something I need to work on."

Her salary is close to $70k+, her husbands is $100k+. They make a lot of money, and yet admittedly, they spend it all.

She did follow it up with "You're a role model in that regard, it's something that's impressed me about you for a while." So that was awesome.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16532 on: January 12, 2017, 11:52:21 PM »
Way to go! Hopefully you can be a role model to her and her husband and guide them to a better financial path.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16533 on: January 12, 2017, 11:53:12 PM »
Her salary is close to $70k+, her husbands is $100k+. They make a lot of money, and yet admittedly, they spend it all.

She did follow it up with "You're a role model in that regard, it's something that's impressed me about you for a while." So that was awesome.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16534 on: January 13, 2017, 12:16:53 AM »


She did follow it up with "You're a role model in that regard, it's something that's impressed me about you for a while." So that was awesome.


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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16535 on: January 13, 2017, 12:24:08 AM »
...
CW: I should really get into the habit of doing that but my water is sparkling.
Me: Yeah well, it's free, so I don't mind just having still water. (I don't really like sparkling water.)
CW: Well, I HOPE that you're not so impoverished that that would be a consideration.
Me: I'm not going to buy something we are provided for free.

And this is why the MMM folk will never see eye to eye with the people we mock. The sole consideration is 'what do I want most', not what is most cost effective or what will prevent an extra thousand bottles a year going to landfill.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16536 on: January 13, 2017, 12:25:59 AM »
Her salary is close to $70k+, her husbands is $100k+. They make a lot of money, and yet admittedly, they spend it all.

She did follow it up with "You're a role model in that regard, it's something that's impressed me about you for a while." So that was awesome.
;-D
Good for you. And maybe she will make the step one day. This kind of lifestyle can be made step by step.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16537 on: January 13, 2017, 01:38:07 AM »


CW: I should really get into the habit of doing that but my water is sparkling.
Me: Yeah well, it's free, so I don't mind just having still water. (I don't really like sparkling water.)
CW: Well, I HOPE that you're not so impoverished that that would be a consideration.
Me: I'm not going to buy something we are provided for free.

So, leave it a couple of days and then work:
Well, I HOPE that you're not so impoverished that you have to work over 55
into the conversation ;)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16538 on: January 13, 2017, 03:46:36 AM »
New colleague at work who I posted about before:

<...>

This morning he was putting his bottle of sparkling water in the freezer (??) when I was filling my water bottle from the cooler.

CW: I should really get into the habit of doing that but my water is sparkling.
Me: Yeah well, it's free, so I don't mind just having still water. (I don't really like sparkling water.)
CW: Well, I HOPE that you're not so impoverished that that would be a consideration.
Me: I'm not going to buy something we are provided for free.

I think at my office that we even have a machine that can provide sparkling cold water for free. I still don't use it because I also prefer still water. My only requirement is that it should be cold. But the machine at work can also do that. At home I just fill my glass from the tap.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16539 on: January 13, 2017, 03:59:00 AM »
At home I just fill my glass from the tap.

*Hoglet121's co-worker looks on with pity at your impoverished existence*

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16540 on: January 13, 2017, 04:42:49 AM »
Today I saw a former co-worker who retired from the government and now works for Ford:

FCW:  Things are great, I get a company car and I get a great deal on leasing 3 Ford vehicles.  So I plan on one for myself and getting my kids each one.  I'm probably going to get my daughter a new Mustang.

NR thinks to self, and you wonder why you needed to get a high paying post government retirement job.

Talked to another friend who works at Ford it's not that great of a deal, said former co-worker is proposing to spend at least $1,000/month on the leases.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16541 on: January 13, 2017, 05:18:34 AM »
I spent about thirty minutes trying to get a couple of the guys to understand the difference between roth and traditional. One guy could not figure out why on their traditional 401k does't show how much taxes will be taken out when he withdrawals it n retirement. the other guy was pissed that the company match couldn't go into his roth. I tried explaining to him that his 100K salary plus what ever his wife makes as a physicians assistant probably has them in a pretty high tax bracket and he would be better off using the traditional anyway. I got "well taxes are just going to keep going up so I'll pay mine now. All them damn liberals."

Atleast they are putting money away I guess.

if they arent planning to FIRE they could be in an equivalent or higher tax bracket making roth make sense. over Trad plus taxable.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16542 on: January 13, 2017, 05:54:31 AM »
At home I just fill my glass from the tap.

*Hoglet121's co-worker looks on with pity at your impoverished existence*

I've had colleagues tell me that they can't believe I let my children drink tap water.

... I can support nestle and their dubious ethics and less-tested water that comes from the same water sources as major cities use. Or I can enjoy the spring water that gushes from my taps. Wtf kind of choice is that.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16543 on: January 13, 2017, 07:20:53 AM »

I think at my office that we even have a machine that can provide sparkling cold water for free. I still don't use it because I also prefer still water. My only requirement is that it should be cold. But the machine at work can also do that. At home I just fill my glass from the tap.

Our New York office has spigots that can do still or sparkling, but us Iowa peons only can still water. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16544 on: January 13, 2017, 07:30:06 AM »
I've had colleagues tell me that they can't believe I let my children drink tap water.

... I can support nestle and their dubious ethics and less-tested water that comes from the same water sources as major cities use. Or I can enjoy the spring water that gushes from my taps. Wtf kind of choice is that.

But when I am abroad in Southern Europe I buy bottled still water. Maybe I am an idiot for that, because I am sure the water is safe to drink, because it is smelling of chlorine like a swimming pool. But I don't like the smell of it. Too much chlorine smell for my taste. For that one week a year in the south, I can afford buying the cheapest brand of bottled water, just because of the smell and taste.

But I do laugh at foreigners visiting the mountains in Norway, bringing expensive water filters to filter clear mountain water.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16545 on: January 13, 2017, 07:36:13 AM »
But I do laugh at foreigners visiting the mountains in Norway, bringing expensive water filters to filter clear mountain water.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16546 on: January 13, 2017, 07:58:18 AM »
At home I just fill my glass from the tap.

*Hoglet121's co-worker looks on with pity at your impoverished existence*

I've had colleagues tell me that they can't believe I let my children drink tap water.

... I can support nestle and their dubious ethics and less-tested water that comes from the same water sources as major cities use. Or I can enjoy the spring water that gushes from my taps. Wtf kind of choice is that.
Not to mention all the phtalate and other stuff seeping into the water from plastic bottles.
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But at least I am not so impoverished that I have to spend extra time to get my drinking water to home, i have someone who brings it to me whenever I want!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16547 on: January 13, 2017, 09:37:30 AM »
A coworker said to me the other day that she and her husband spent over $1,000 on food at their house entertaining friends over the holidays.  I laughed and told her I spent $0. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16548 on: January 13, 2017, 09:40:27 AM »
A coworker said to me the other day that she and her husband spent over $1,000 on food at their house entertaining friends over the holidays.  I laughed and told her I spent $0.

You didn't eat?  Or you went somewhere else?  Grow/slaughter your own?  How does one spend $0 on food?
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #16549 on: January 13, 2017, 10:03:57 AM »
Did alot of bulk shopping in October... ;)