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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1650 on: January 31, 2014, 09:44:04 AM »
Had our head accounting guy come down to train us on our new time entering software. It was a pretty good meeting until he explained the hyperlinks at the bottom of the page where you can get various forms. One form was to take a loan out on your 401k. I was just getting ready to tune myself out of the meeting at this point. Then he said something that blew my mind. He said "I know having the ability to access your 401k money through a loan is a nice feature to have but I would highly recommend you have no more than 3-4 loans out at any given time." I am having a hard time wrapping my head around this.

Wow.  Just incredible.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1651 on: January 31, 2014, 09:51:19 AM »
My co-worker just bemoaned all the stuff she has. Says her townhouse is bursting at the seams. I mentioned that I had just done a purge after Christmas to give away all the items we hadn't used regularly in say, a year. She agreed that was one option, but instead, she's going to Ikea, because "it just all needs to be better organized."

So her solution for having too much stuff is to...buy more stuff?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1652 on: January 31, 2014, 10:28:49 AM »
At lunch a coworker with a 3 month old baby complained
- clothing for babies is cheap and doesn't last
- clothing for babies at (mall store) is way too expensive
- he is starting to stack up tubs in the basement for the potential next kid of things that have only been worn 2-3 times (if that)
- passing baby clothing across friends & family is gross

This person should be slapped, my son just turned 1, and almost all the clothes we purchased were from a local yard sale site from all different people, every time he grew out of those, we purchased the next sizes all used, and sold back some of the others or gave them to others with kids that needed them.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1653 on: January 31, 2014, 10:34:53 AM »
My co-worker just bemoaned all the stuff she has. Says her townhouse is bursting at the seams. I mentioned that I had just done a purge after Christmas to give away all the items we hadn't used regularly in say, a year. She agreed that was one option, but instead, she's going to Ikea, because "it just all needs to be better organized."

So her solution for having too much stuff is to...buy more stuff?

Sadly, this is common.  This is also why all organizing articles start out by telling people not to run out and first buy and organizing gadget, but instead to get a handle on the problem and what, if anything, you need.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1654 on: January 31, 2014, 06:16:44 PM »
I worked for one of the big consulting firms, and the Partners use to throw parties and invite many of the new analysts/consultants... partly to network and partly to show, "you too can have all this one day".  I can remember being in the basement at one of those parties that was all tricked out with pinball machines, dart games, and a pool table.  The Partner's 7 year old kid was playing pool with us and one of the analysts was trying to make small talk and said to the kid he must have a lot of fun down here with his dad.  The son's reply, "No, my dad's never home to play".  Total silence in the room.  It's something that certainly made an impression on me....as well as the others, I suspect.



My stepkids kind of allude to this about their dad. He's a good provider to them financially, but I'm pretty sure I know who's going to be teaching them how to drive, shoot, etc.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1655 on: January 31, 2014, 08:20:48 PM »
We don't talk about money too much in our office (significant rank differences), but its a cyclical thing to see young troops driving top dollar cars when they live in the barracks and live across the street from work, spend the rest of their paychecks on gadgets, and when they leave the Army to be broke just a couple months after they get out.  It's sad especially in the months right after a deployment where we come home with a lot of money and the car dealerships get cleaned out within days of our arrival.  Six months to a year later many of those cars are no longer in the barracks parking lot and soldiers are asking when is the next deployment. We try to educate soldiers on personal finance as much as possible, but I have found it difficult to get an 18 year old making a $20k salary right out of high school to listen (and who has no real expenses).  A lot of the older and more mature soldiers use these deployments as a windfall to clean up their younger mistakes, but it's not universal and those deployments are quickly drying up. 

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1656 on: January 31, 2014, 09:18:11 PM »
Here's kind of a sad story that happened at work today.

I work next to an older guy (he's 61) who's an engineer. I like him, he's pretty cool, we talk about stuff all the time. But for the last week or so, he's been seeming... a little off. I thought he might be angry about something, and today I think we figured out what it is.

Well, turns out he hasn't showed up for work in 2 days, and nobody's heard from him, nobody knew what happened, so a bunch of guys went to his house. He was half-dressed, wandering around his house, couldn't remember people's names, couldn't remember what day of the week it was. Pretty sure he'd had a stroke about 2 weeks ago... he'd missed a day feeling bad... and it wasn't severe enough for him to think anything of it. But for the last two weeks, he'd gotten progressively worse, until he couldn't remember enough to come to work. He was confused. He's a heavy smoker, heavy drinker, eats fast food every day. Can't say he shouldn't have seen that coming.

The sad part? He's a single guy. No family, no next of kin, no emergency contacts that anyone can find. We know he has children. Nobody knows their names, where they live, if they even know he's still alive. He is a contractor... and he has no health insurance. Probably not much retirement, either. I feel so bad for this guy, but there's nothing I can do.

I don't ever want to end up like that.
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« Reply #1657 on: January 31, 2014, 10:33:48 PM »
That is heartbreaking.  :(

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1658 on: February 01, 2014, 11:40:12 AM »
Here's kind of a sad story that happened at work today.

I work next to an older guy (he's 61) who's an engineer. I like him, he's pretty cool, we talk about stuff all the time. But for the last week or so, he's been seeming... a little off. I thought he might be angry about something, and today I think we figured out what it is.

Well, turns out he hasn't showed up for work in 2 days, and nobody's heard from him, nobody knew what happened, so a bunch of guys went to his house. He was half-dressed, wandering around his house, couldn't remember people's names, couldn't remember what day of the week it was. Pretty sure he'd had a stroke about 2 weeks ago... he'd missed a day feeling bad... and it wasn't severe enough for him to think anything of it. But for the last two weeks, he'd gotten progressively worse, until he couldn't remember enough to come to work. He was confused. He's a heavy smoker, heavy drinker, eats fast food every day. Can't say he shouldn't have seen that coming.

The sad part? He's a single guy. No family, no next of kin, no emergency contacts that anyone can find. We know he has children. Nobody knows their names, where they live, if they even know he's still alive. He is a contractor... and he has no health insurance. Probably not much retirement, either. I feel so bad for this guy, but there's nothing I can do.

I don't ever want to end up like that.

Nice that his work mates care enough to check up on him! :) That warmed my heart a little (write before it broke :/ )

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« Reply #1659 on: February 01, 2014, 02:12:28 PM »
If you live in an urban area, I would see if Human Services or such can do a wellness check. If you live in the boonies, I'd call the police. Either one might make some effort to track down next of kin. Plus, he can probably get healthcare on the open market if needed. Sad story.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1660 on: February 01, 2014, 04:01:49 PM »
If you live in an urban area, I would see if Human Services or such can do a wellness check. If you live in the boonies, I'd call the police. Either one might make some effort to track down next of kin. Plus, he can probably get healthcare on the open market if needed. Sad story.

We're not quite sure what happened, but I'll probably get more details Monday. If he regains his senses enough to talk, they can probably find out what they need to know. I seriously doubt he'll be coming back to work right away, though. Really hoping and praying he's okay and that there's no permanent damage.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1661 on: February 02, 2014, 01:08:04 AM »
I was about to post my own "well I thought it was..." then thought better of it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Block_heater
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A block heater warms an engine to increase the chances that the engine will start as well as warm up the vehicle faster than it normally would in extremely cold weather.
I've also heard there are battery heaters and other things used in the far north for different temperature-related reasons.

Yeah, its just to make it easier to start. At -40 you only get one or two tries before the battery is out of juice, so you plug it in to make sure it'll start on the first try. Adding oil pan and battery heaters further increase the odds of success in your favor. It may have been 'required' back in the days before fuel injection, though.

70/30 antifreeze/water is good to -84F
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1662 on: February 02, 2014, 07:28:17 AM »
This actual sounds about right. He buys the first car with an 84 month loan and then by the time the second car is paid off it is 14 years old with 200k miles on it. And I really wish I was joking about 84 month car loans.:)

Personal I find it fascinating the people that buy cars as soon as they pay off the note. Do they really feel those 4-5 year old cars are about to become a money pit or are they just used to having a payment?

So, they are each driving a relatively new car (< 3 years old) only 3/14ths of the time.
And yet they never seem to understand that math...

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« Reply #1663 on: February 02, 2014, 08:17:44 AM »
This actual sounds about right. He buys the first car with an 84 month loan and then by the time the second car is paid off it is 14 years old with 200k miles on it. And I really wish I was joking about 84 month car loans.:)

Personal I find it fascinating the people that buy cars as soon as they pay off the note. Do they really feel those 4-5 year old cars are about to become a money pit or are they just used to having a payment?

So, they are each driving a relatively new car (< 3 years old) only 3/14ths of the time.
And yet they never seem to understand that math...
You hit the nail on the head! They also believe that since they are used to making payments it's just easier that way. They think it's to hard to adjust to a new payment so they try and keep one going at all times. Besides they don't reLly "miss" that money lol
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1664 on: February 02, 2014, 09:52:34 AM »
Here's kind of a sad story that happened at work today.

I work next to an older guy (he's 61) who's an engineer. I like him, he's pretty cool, we talk about stuff all the time. But for the last week or so, he's been seeming... a little off. I thought he might be angry about something, and today I think we figured out what it is.

Well, turns out he hasn't showed up for work in 2 days, and nobody's heard from him, nobody knew what happened, so a bunch of guys went to his house. He was half-dressed, wandering around his house, couldn't remember people's names, couldn't remember what day of the week it was. Pretty sure he'd had a stroke about 2 weeks ago... he'd missed a day feeling bad... and it wasn't severe enough for him to think anything of it. But for the last two weeks, he'd gotten progressively worse, until he couldn't remember enough to come to work. He was confused. He's a heavy smoker, heavy drinker, eats fast food every day. Can't say he shouldn't have seen that coming.

The sad part? He's a single guy. No family, no next of kin, no emergency contacts that anyone can find. We know he has children. Nobody knows their names, where they live, if they even know he's still alive. He is a contractor... and he has no health insurance. Probably not much retirement, either. I feel so bad for this guy, but there's nothing I can do.

I don't ever want to end up like that.

Sadly, this reminded me of something similar a few years ago.  A co-worker hadnt been in for a few days and some of the folks closer to him had a bad feeling.  I got management involved which in turn had the police check on him (large corporation, gotta go with procedure...).  Turns out he had passed in his sleep, peacefully we hope.  He had been in his late 50's, vibrant fellow who was very dedicated to work.  BUT he never went to the doctor for fear of finding out something bad.  Wasn't in the best shape/health, but he was making efforts via exercise and trying to eat better etc.  Unfortunately it was too little too late.  It's a haunting reminder that I come before anything else. 

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« Reply #1665 on: February 02, 2014, 10:56:09 AM »
[...]I'm in my 30's and don't go out every Friday/Saturday night to go clubbing or have kids[...]

Haha, those are the ONLY two options for people in their 30s.  Ugh, what a crappy decade that's gonna be!

It's actually pretty awesome. You just have to be more creative than 98% of your coworkers (don't worry, it's absurdly easy.)

Well I'm 33 and married. We do like to take vacations so that could be our "thing" our landlord got the rent from my husband yesterday and my husband mentioned we've been to Vegas and our landlord was like "Now I'm jealous. Almost every time I come by you guys have been to somewhere." It's easier to up and leave when you have no kids.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1666 on: February 02, 2014, 12:59:39 PM »
If you live very north, the mix of antifreeze doesn't matter.  At -40 any mixture will freeze solid.  You have get a block heater and plug your car in so that it'll start the next morning.
 . . . ah, memories of my childhood up north . . .
I'm going to have to call BS on this. I've started a number of vehicles which were cold soaked around -40 (good ole prairies), and never had the coolant freeze solid. If your coolant is fresh, as in you change it every few years because it does degrade with time, a 70/30 mixture of ethelyne glycol to water should be good down to around -51 C. It should be noted that pure ethelyne glycol has a freezing point of -12 C though.

Huh.  My dad always told me the block heater was needed because the anti-freeze would freeze.  Nearly everyone in Northern Ontario had/used block heaters when it would get really cold.  Our mall and parking lot outside the grocery store had outlets so you could plug them in.  What's the block heater for then?  Our '81 Ford Zephyr would not start unless plugged in.

I thought the block heater was to heat the block, making it easier for the engine to start. I can't imagine a block heater melting ice that is in your coolant.

The oil can get so hard it won't flow.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1667 on: February 02, 2014, 01:40:52 PM »
BUT he never went to the doctor for fear of finding out something bad.

You never know, though.  Similar thing happened to my PhD advisor.  Late 40s/early 50s, in great shape, dropped dead while out on his morning hike.  Thing is, he was a doctor himself.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1668 on: February 04, 2014, 07:58:01 AM »
Here's a fun one.

The pension came up at work yesterday, and so did tax returns.

cw1 has 6.5 years with the company and never signed up for the pension because he was on contract... He was actually considering taking out a loan to buy all that time back until he found out that they wouldn't double his contribution while buying back. 

cw2 mentioned she received a $3000+ tax return once, and "I never held so much money before..."

A day in the life I guess - Both these people eat lunch out on a daily basis.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1669 on: February 04, 2014, 08:20:02 AM »
Had our head accounting guy come down to train us on our new time entering software. It was a pretty good meeting until he explained the hyperlinks at the bottom of the page where you can get various forms. One form was to take a loan out on your 401k. I was just getting ready to tune myself out of the meeting at this point. Then he said something that blew my mind. He said "I know having the ability to access your 401k money through a loan is a nice feature to have but I would highly recommend you have no more than 3-4 loans out at any given time." I am having a hard time wrapping my head around this.

3 - 4 loans??  Wow.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1670 on: February 04, 2014, 08:36:40 AM »
I told a coworker I bought a house and we're selling the condo.
CW: I downsized from a house to a condo and have things in storage right now.
Me: Oh, I didn't know you moved recently.
CW: It was three years ago, when the kids moved out that I moved into an apartment, before buying the condo.
Me: Oh.  If you haven't used it in that time, maybe you can do without it.  Have you thought about -
CW: I know, I should get rid it.  And the worst part, it's all the kids' stuff!

So props on downsizing from a house to a smaller condo, but eep, 3 years of storage payments!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1671 on: February 04, 2014, 09:13:16 AM »
I just LOL's at the concept of using bottles of distilled water to mix with antifreeze! I used tap and my old car couldn't tell the difference for over 350,000 miles.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1672 on: February 04, 2014, 10:26:04 AM »
Conversation w/a co-worker who also happens to be my neighbor, regarding my future move.

CW:  So, how's new house coming along?
Me:  It's moving fast now!  I'm trying to get everything ready here, so I can list this place in the next few weeks.  Once it sells, then I can start selling off like half the stuff in the house!
CW:  Oh, that's right, y'all are moving to a smaller house.
Me:  Yup, it's about 1,700 sq ft. (Our current home is 3,600 - 2 adults, 5 spoiled kitties)
CW:  (Wide-eyed) OMG!  You really ARE moving to a smaller house!  I mean, I'm sure it will be nice, to be so cozy all the time.
Me: Well, there will be a 400 sq ft patio in the back.
CW:  Oh, well that will make it a lot more livable, then...

I just laughed internally.  There's something really wrong when 1,700 sq ft for 2 people is considered small.  I'll laugh again once all deals are finally closed, and I can look forward to making that mortgage payment to our bank account instead.  That will REALLY ramp up FIRE!!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1673 on: February 04, 2014, 10:29:59 AM »
I work for the fed, and we got an email newsletter about benefits yesterday.  Fun facts:

14% do not contribute to TSP at all - consider that there is matching up to 5%
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« Reply #1674 on: February 04, 2014, 10:53:10 AM »
Conversation w/a co-worker who also happens to be my neighbor, regarding my future move.

CW:  So, how's new house coming along?
Me:  It's moving fast now!  I'm trying to get everything ready here, so I can list this place in the next few weeks.  Once it sells, then I can start selling off like half the stuff in the house!
CW:  Oh, that's right, y'all are moving to a smaller house.
Me:  Yup, it's about 1,700 sq ft. (Our current home is 3,600 - 2 adults, 5 spoiled kitties)
CW:  (Wide-eyed) OMG!  You really ARE moving to a smaller house!  I mean, I'm sure it will be nice, to be so cozy all the time.
Me: Well, there will be a 400 sq ft patio in the back.
CW:  Oh, well that will make it a lot more livable, then...

I just laughed internally.  There's something really wrong when 1,700 sq ft for 2 people is considered small.  I'll laugh again once all deals are finally closed, and I can look forward to making that mortgage payment to our bank account instead.  That will REALLY ramp up FIRE!!

I...don't think I know what I would do with 1700 SF unless the layout was really bad, or it was counting lots of un-livable space (closets, utility, garage?) Even if I had kids that seems like I'd bounce around and rage about all the cleaning and clutter (largest place I've experienced living in, except a dorm, was about 1350 SF).

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1675 on: February 04, 2014, 11:43:08 AM »
My coworker and I love jewellery.

She recently bought two rings - very beautiful and lovely. Curiousity got to me, and I looked up the cost... ~$8000 before taxes.

She later referred to her visa bill being $10,000.

Eeps! I'm hoping that she's secretly wealthy and working for fun... but I doubt it. O.o

This just blows my mind!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1676 on: February 04, 2014, 12:29:19 PM »
Co-worker and her husband went to a charity silent auction over the weekend and bid $1,500 on a random trip to a lake and some sports crap for their kid. $1,500 unplanned! But "it was for charity" so it's ok.

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« Reply #1677 on: February 04, 2014, 12:43:52 PM »
We don't talk about money too much in our office (significant rank differences), but its a cyclical thing to see young troops driving top dollar cars when they live in the barracks and live across the street from work, spend the rest of their paychecks on gadgets, and when they leave the Army to be broke just a couple months after they get out.  It's sad especially in the months right after a deployment where we come home with a lot of money and the car dealerships get cleaned out within days of our arrival.  Six months to a year later many of those cars are no longer in the barracks parking lot and soldiers are asking when is the next deployment. We try to educate soldiers on personal finance as much as possible, but I have found it difficult to get an 18 year old making a $20k salary right out of high school to listen (and who has no real expenses).  A lot of the older and more mature soldiers use these deployments as a windfall to clean up their younger mistakes, but it's not universal and those deployments are quickly drying up.

So much this. :(

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1678 on: February 04, 2014, 01:03:30 PM »
My coworker and I love jewellery.

She recently bought two rings - very beautiful and lovely. Curiousity got to me, and I looked up the cost... ~$8000 before taxes.

She later referred to her visa bill being $10,000.

Eeps! I'm hoping that she's secretly wealthy and working for fun... but I doubt it. O.o

This just blows my mind!

A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1679 on: February 04, 2014, 01:40:05 PM »
Co-worker and her husband went to a charity silent auction over the weekend and bid $1,500 on a random trip to a lake and some sports crap for their kid. $1,500 unplanned! But "it was for charity" so it's ok.

In fairness, I attend the annual auction for my charity with the intent of spending money to support them when I walk in the door, as part of my charitable donations (I understand I do not get a tax writeoff though).  It's possible that she does the same.

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« Reply #1680 on: February 04, 2014, 01:53:57 PM »
A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

I know someone like that.  I asked him once about the spending because it was always new toys, cars, bikes... .  He pointed out that he can't spend as much as his investments make without going completely insane like a new car weekly type insane.   There was zero point in saving his paycheque and he was working for fun.

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« Reply #1681 on: February 04, 2014, 02:31:29 PM »
A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

I know someone like that.  I asked him once about the spending because it was always new toys, cars, bikes... .  He pointed out that he can't spend as much as his investments make without going completely insane like a new car weekly type insane.   There was zero point in saving his paycheque and he was working for fun.

I suppose as long as you love your job

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« Reply #1682 on: February 04, 2014, 02:37:24 PM »
A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

I know someone like that.  I asked him once about the spending because it was always new toys, cars, bikes... .  He pointed out that he can't spend as much as his investments make without going completely insane like a new car weekly type insane.   There was zero point in saving his paycheque and he was working for fun.

These people are not quite so rich, but still she could easily be staying home with her two small kids. Her husband is earning well into six figures, but she wants to contribute financially as well.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1683 on: February 04, 2014, 10:20:57 PM »
My coworker and I love jewellery.

She recently bought two rings - very beautiful and lovely. Curiousity got to me, and I looked up the cost... ~$8000 before taxes.

She later referred to her visa bill being $10,000.

Eeps! I'm hoping that she's secretly wealthy and working for fun... but I doubt it. O.o

This just blows my mind!

A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

I looked up my coworker's Tiffany engagement ring when she got it a few months ago. Only $14,000. WHAT!?!? I have so much trouble not gossiping about that at the office; I (almost) wish I'd never looked it up.

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« Reply #1684 on: February 05, 2014, 07:54:03 AM »
I just LOL's at the concept of using bottles of distilled water to mix with antifreeze! I used tap and my old car couldn't tell the difference for over 350,000 miles.
Go ahead and laugh. I use nothing but distilled water with my antifreeze. Having minerals and other crap in there may not make that much difference, but it certainly isn't helping anything. Distilled water is about 80 cents a gallon, and it only takes about 1 gallon of water (+1 gallon of antifreeze = 2 gallons total) to completely fill a car's cooling system. Spending an extra 80 cents every 40k miles isn't exactly a big hindrance to early retirement.

Now, if you want to laugh at the people buying the pre-diluted antifreeze, I can understand that.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1685 on: February 05, 2014, 09:41:38 AM »
there is a whole lot differnece between using distilled water for your cooling system and your washer system.
Car manufactures actually tell people to NOT use distilled water in your washer system because it attacks some plastics or something.

The cooling fluid is designed to protect the engine from corrosion, I don't think minerals in the water would help, I don't know if the would do any harm. But as exranger said, 80cent per 40.000 km might not be worth the risk.

To stay on topic:
I had a discussion with my coworkers about valentines day. The range goes from "we just ignore it" to some pricey jewellery. Also a lot of women feel like they should get something extra special, but don't have to get anything in return, but that's for another topic.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1686 on: February 05, 2014, 09:58:12 AM »
My coworker and I love jewellery.

She recently bought two rings - very beautiful and lovely. Curiousity got to me, and I looked up the cost... ~$8000 before taxes.

She later referred to her visa bill being $10,000.

Eeps! I'm hoping that she's secretly wealthy and working for fun... but I doubt it. O.o

This just blows my mind!

A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

My girlfriend and I are talking about tying the knot and her mom offered up a ring she was given as a gift from her mom and just get the diamonds reset in another band. 

She sent the appraisal for it via email last night, the main stone is worth ~$21,000.  Girlfriend didn't quite know what to make of my reaction:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0lV6uMtcz8

"Oh yeah!  That's exactly like the ones I was looking at too!"

To be clear, I (we) are extremely grateful and honored to keep something like that in the family.  It's just the thought of spending that much on a ring...hell never mind a ring, on about anything other than a house...about made my head explode.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1687 on: February 05, 2014, 10:16:30 AM »
My coworker and I love jewellery.

She recently bought two rings - very beautiful and lovely. Curiousity got to me, and I looked up the cost... ~$8000 before taxes.

She later referred to her visa bill being $10,000.

Eeps! I'm hoping that she's secretly wealthy and working for fun... but I doubt it. O.o

This just blows my mind!

A friend/co-worker sometimes wears a necklace to work with a sizeable diamond worth about 20,000$. She is wealthy though, according to herself the family is among the top 10% taxpayers in the country. Not sure if they save anything too, other than in a pension fund.

My girlfriend and I are talking about tying the knot and her mom offered up a ring she was given as a gift from her mom and just get the diamonds reset in another band. 

She sent the appraisal for it via email last night, the main stone is worth ~$21,000.  Girlfriend didn't quite know what to make of my reaction:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0lV6uMtcz8

"Oh yeah!  That's exactly like the ones I was looking at too!"

To be clear, I (we) are extremely grateful and honored to keep something like that in the family.  It's just the thought of spending that much on a ring...hell never mind a ring, on about anything other than a house...about made my head explode.

WOW! that's actually a super cool and really generous gift, and nice that it's a family thing. I also would be terrified/appalled by the idea of ever purchasing a diamond that expensive, though. my boyfriend and I have been talking about this too, and I made it clear that I DON'T want a diamond and I don't even want him to spend more than $1k on it. in fact, even that amount freaks me out (it would be the most valuable thing in our house by far... my laptop would be the only thing that even cost the same amount new, and it's 4 years old now) so the cheaper the better (to a point, I mean I don't want a twist tie :))

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1688 on: February 05, 2014, 11:41:01 AM »
Not so much a conversation more like an observation. We have a coffee pot at work and the company supplies the coffee. We also have two guys that show up at work and then drive three blocks to the gas station to pay $1.29 for the same exact cup of coffee they could of had at work. I realize it's only a dollar but for a cup of black coffee that you could of had for free it just seems silly. They don't even have to make it lol. I get to work a little early and it's always done when they get here
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1689 on: February 05, 2014, 12:17:12 PM »
Not so much a conversation more like an observation. We have a coffee pot at work and the company supplies the coffee. We also have two guys that show up at work and then drive three blocks to the gas station to pay $1.29 for the same exact cup of coffee they could of had at work. I realize it's only a dollar but for a cup of black coffee that you could of had for free it just seems silly. They don't even have to make it lol. I get to work a little early and it's always done when they get here

Around here they drive somewhere for coffee, then drive back and the coffee gets cold . . . so they proceed to heat up the coffee in a microwave in the disposable cup.  Next to the free fresh coffee machine.  Blech.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1690 on: February 05, 2014, 12:52:54 PM »
Conversation w/a co-worker who also happens to be my neighbor, regarding my future move.

CW:  So, how's new house coming along?
Me:  It's moving fast now!  I'm trying to get everything ready here, so I can list this place in the next few weeks.  Once it sells, then I can start selling off like half the stuff in the house!
CW:  Oh, that's right, y'all are moving to a smaller house.
Me:  Yup, it's about 1,700 sq ft. (Our current home is 3,600 - 2 adults, 5 spoiled kitties)
CW:  (Wide-eyed) OMG!  You really ARE moving to a smaller house!  I mean, I'm sure it will be nice, to be so cozy all the time.
Me: Well, there will be a 400 sq ft patio in the back.
CW:  Oh, well that will make it a lot more livable, then...

I just laughed internally.  There's something really wrong when 1,700 sq ft for 2 people is considered small.  I'll laugh again once all deals are finally closed, and I can look forward to making that mortgage payment to our bank account instead.  That will REALLY ramp up FIRE!!

I...don't think I know what I would do with 1700 SF unless the layout was really bad, or it was counting lots of un-livable space (closets, utility, garage?) Even if I had kids that seems like I'd bounce around and rage about all the cleaning and clutter (largest place I've experienced living in, except a dorm, was about 1350 SF).

Nope, that 1,700 is livable space, and the layout is pretty generous, very little "fat" going to hallways and such.  My current house boasts a Master closet that is 250 sq ft, which is and was ridiculous when we bought the place.  I refer to it as "the baby's room", b/c it could easily be a comfortable nursery.  Seriously, there are WINDOWS in that closet!

We bought the big house b/c we moved away from family and expected to have tons of friends & family streaming in for visits.  It rarely happens.  Over half the house simply doesn't get used.  We love our neighborhood, but we'll still be close by, and not having a mortgage payment is going to be amazing.  We'll keep in touch w/our old neighbors, and make friends w/the new ones.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1691 on: February 05, 2014, 02:26:33 PM »
Not so much a conversation more like an observation. We have a coffee pot at work and the company supplies the coffee. We also have two guys that show up at work and then drive three blocks to the gas station to pay $1.29 for the same exact cup of coffee they could of had at work. I realize it's only a dollar but for a cup of black coffee that you could of had for free it just seems silly. They don't even have to make it lol. I get to work a little early and it's always done when they get here

We used to have people tat went upstairs to the cafeteria for a 1 coffee, when you could get better coffee out of the (pod) espresso machine in the kitchen, or the same vending machine they had upstairs, or instant coffee if you're super busy. There is some twisted logic to wanting to have a break without being seen to have a break (if you sit around the kitchen drinking coffee you're being lazy, if you're just not at your desk, you're probably in a meeting) but yeah, people are stupid.

Also driving 3 blocks? You would actually have to pay me to do that - city driving is a ballache, especially pulling in and out of places / parking.

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« Reply #1692 on: February 05, 2014, 02:32:32 PM »
I think you get the wrong idea when it say drive. I live in a town of ~1500. If you meet one car on the way to the gas station from the shop it's a busy day. I think there might be one stop sign between here and there. I still don't get it though.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1693 on: February 05, 2014, 08:21:47 PM »
Now, if you want to laugh at the people buying the pre-diluted antifreeze, I can understand that.

Go ahead and laugh at me then. Several years ago, I did some research and figured out that I wanted a specific type of antifreeze to top off with (Peak Global Lifetime, which is supposed to safely mix with any other type of antifreeze). Locally, it was only available in diluted form, and what do you know, it's expensive to ship a gallon of fluids from an online retailer, so I bought the premixed stuff. Used it to top off and still have quite a bit of it left, several years later.

The last time I actually flushed/changed antifreeze, I bought a gallon of undiluted stuff (and I used distilled water to dilute it).

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« Reply #1694 on: February 05, 2014, 08:27:10 PM »
She sent the appraisal for it via email last night, the main stone is worth ~$21,000.

That's really generous! If she accepts the gift, she may want to consider having it listed or scheduled specifically on your homeowners/renters policy. With my carrier, it's something like $10 per year per $1,000 of coverage. The advantage to having it listed is that a normal policy only covers a nominal amount of jewelry, also, if it's listed, the policy will pay if you accidentally lose it. You may want to talk to your insurance agent.

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« Reply #1695 on: February 06, 2014, 08:33:39 AM »
She sent the appraisal for it via email last night, the main stone is worth ~$21,000.

That's really generous! If she accepts the gift, she may want to consider having it listed or scheduled specifically on your homeowners/renters policy. With my carrier, it's something like $10 per year per $1,000 of coverage. The advantage to having it listed is that a normal policy only covers a nominal amount of jewelry, also, if it's listed, the policy will pay if you accidentally lose it. You may want to talk to your insurance agent.

I wouldn't do that. The actuaries at the insurance company have worked the math in their favour. In general, only buy insurance on things you can't afford to have happen. Losing the ring would suck, but it won't kill you financially.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1696 on: February 06, 2014, 09:35:35 AM »
Conversation w/a co-worker who also happens to be my neighbor, regarding my future move.

CW:  So, how's new house coming along?
Me:  It's moving fast now!  I'm trying to get everything ready here, so I can list this place in the next few weeks.  Once it sells, then I can start selling off like half the stuff in the house!
CW:  Oh, that's right, y'all are moving to a smaller house.
Me:  Yup, it's about 1,700 sq ft. (Our current home is 3,600 - 2 adults, 5 spoiled kitties)
CW:  (Wide-eyed) OMG!  You really ARE moving to a smaller house!  I mean, I'm sure it will be nice, to be so cozy all the time.
Me: Well, there will be a 400 sq ft patio in the back.
CW:  Oh, well that will make it a lot more livable, then...

I just laughed internally.  There's something really wrong when 1,700 sq ft for 2 people is considered small.  I'll laugh again once all deals are finally closed, and I can look forward to making that mortgage payment to our bank account instead.  That will REALLY ramp up FIRE!!

When I was growing up we had 7 people in 1000 sq ft. It honestly never felt crowded. We did spend a lot of time outdoors though.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #1697 on: February 06, 2014, 01:02:41 PM »
Someone started distributing posters around the office for "Pay-Day Hey-Day" to encourage everyone to come out and blow some of that payday on drinks and food at a nearby Japanese restaurant. They do have great sushi there, but the idea that we'd be going out right after payday because we finally have money, is just silly.
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« Reply #1698 on: February 06, 2014, 01:42:21 PM »
Someone started distributing posters around the office for "Pay-Day Hey-Day" to encourage everyone to come out and blow some of that payday on drinks and food at a nearby Japanese restaurant. They do have great sushi there, but the idea that we'd be going out right after payday because we finally have money, is just silly.

Haha, I see what you're saying... but that sounds like a lot of fun!  To me, it's unconnected to payday and spending excessive amounts of money, but people like to make excuses to go out and have fun.  Excuses like "it's Friday!"

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« Reply #1699 on: February 06, 2014, 07:12:12 PM »
My 50-something-year-old boss today informed us all he would "never" be able to retire. He and his wife live in the ritziest neighborhood in our city, they and their offspring are outfitted with the latest iphones/ipods, there's a crossfit membership, he buys breakfast and lunch out every workday... new clothes, musical equipment, electronics, itunes, etc. I just keep eating my brought-from-home lunch and nod in feigned sympathy.

I also had the annoying experience today of being the sole person in a department meeting without an iphone plunked on the table. About every two minutes our meeting was interrupted by a buzz/vibrate/ding whatever. So fucking annoying.