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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15200 on: October 05, 2016, 10:41:09 PM »
Man that would be the perfect time to try and sell her on one of those bookcases that when you pull on a fake book, it slides over and reveals a hidden room.  I so want one of those...
That's the one thing I'm having when I have more money than I can spend and am building my own house.

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I do have a built-in closet in the bedroom that I could do this to.....

(As a professional engineer I store most of my clothes in a pile on the floor anyway.)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15201 on: October 06, 2016, 07:14:34 AM »
(As a professional engineer I store most of my clothes in a pile on the floor anyway.)

For me it's either the floor or the bed. I throw clean clothes on the bed feeling satisfied, like, "Yep, that will make me put them away later today, since I can't go to sleep until I do." Ultimately that means my clothes end up living on the floor, because bedtime-me is not to be bothered with putting clothes away. Sometimes morning-me throws them back on the bed, and bedtime-me scoffs and hurls them back on the floor. It's like the circle of life.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15202 on: October 06, 2016, 07:22:19 AM »
Okay, after months of covertly observing a coworker, I have enough material to share this.

About 9 months ago this guy, let's call him Mario, was transferred from another project onto my team. Now for this story to make sense you have to understand that there is a huge disparity in skill among employees at this company. While we are all developing software, some projects are real engineering who have wickedly smart people working on them, and some other are like janitorial maintenance of crappy applications. Mario's previous project was the latter.

After 6 months of my team, it becomes clear that he is a terrible software engineer. His skills after two years at this company still haven't reached what you could reasonably expect from a CompSci student doing a summer internship before his senior year. Either this either wasn't apparent previously because it wasn't needed in his previous project, or his manager swept it under the rug. Mario is also highly delusional and convinced that he is hot shit, despite the fact that we basically kicked him off our team to move him to another team within the same project where he could hopefully gain from a gentler learning curve doing less cutting edge stuff.

He is also a member of the local toastmasters chapter, which, upon further inspection and attendance of the after-mentioned session that I attended, is about as interesting and mentally stimulating as a trip to the DMV. Two months ago he made a presentation and invited us all to watch, where he basically bragged about being financially responsible and buying a home at "only" 26 years of age. Now to his credit, the idea is that he is getting roommates and basically living for free (not sure if that's actually panned out yet). Upon pressing for details, he revealed that he is doing the 3.5% percent down mortgage with high PMI... on a 120k house.

Today at lunch it was revealed that he has been put on a performance improvement plan a few weeks ago. He is convinced that they have an axe to grind against him, and totally doesn't realize that this means he's about to get fired (as he should). Instead, he went and purchased a $16,000 sports motorcycle. For those of you who know nothing about motorcycles, that is a ridiculously nice bike. He is paying over $500/month for payments and full coverage insurance, and doesn't know his interest rate.

When I not-so-subtly tried to warn him that performance improvement plans can mean firing, he dismissed it saying he would get unemployment insurance. Unemployment insurance caps out at about $1,300/month in this state.

I have a co-worker whose job has been giving her nothing but stress since day 1. This is actually true, her entire department is run and populated by people who never emotionally left middle school - backstabbing, endless drama, gossip, PA behavior, constant trips to HR, the works. So the obvious thing to do when you hate your job and have no change on the horizon is to financially chain yourself even further to said shitty job by financing a car, buying a money suck of a house, running up more cc debt to deal with said money pit. When the next drama shitstorm comes rolling around, she runs to me crying that they can't force her out, she can't make it financially without this job blah blah blah.

I think it sucks she works in a toxic environment, but I have real trouble mustering up any fucks to give about her financial situation. If I thought my job was constantly in danger for one reason or another, the last thing I would be doing is making large, needless purchases. I'd be saving like a maniac, cutting expenses, and looking for another job. But I'm not even in that situation. If I lost my job today, so what? Oh well, just enjoy the time off and go find another one. We don't need me to work to survive and have money in the bank because we haven't balled and chained ourselves to needing every penny of either of our incomes to make it. However, she assumes that we did because projection. I am not really interested in correcting her, I just sit and nod. She's too old to change (almost the same age as my own mother).

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15203 on: October 06, 2016, 07:32:23 AM »
Got a good one from my wife's work.

Co-worker A needs to buy a birthday gift for his girlfriend so he enlists co-worker B (female) to help. They come to the decision that a designer purse, original MSRP of $3,000 is appropriate. But holy shit, it's 50% off what a great deal! Only $1,500!. Boom, bought it!

Such a great deal in fact that Co-worker B just HAD to buy one for herself, I mean you're just an idiot if you pass up a bargain like that!

For context, they both have incomes in the $70-80K range.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15204 on: October 06, 2016, 07:55:09 AM »
But holy shit, it's 50% off what a great deal! Only $1,500!. Boom, bought it!

Holy shit sounds about right. I mean...I'm a purse addict, but ho...ly....shit.  No effing way.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15205 on: October 06, 2016, 08:17:41 AM »
My purse is also worth approximately 1,500$.

Except it's huge, and I can fit a shit ton of stuff in there.

Like my snowboard.

And 4 people.

And it can take me across the country.

Oh wait, no, I mean my car; my car is worth approximately 1,500$.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15206 on: October 06, 2016, 08:22:03 AM »
My purse is also worth approximately 1,500$.

Except it's huge, and I can fit a shit ton of stuff in there.

Like my snowboard.

And 4 people.

And it can take me across the country.

Oh wait, no, I mean my car; my car is worth approximately 1,500$.



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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15207 on: October 06, 2016, 08:25:37 AM »
But holy shit, it's 50% off what a great deal! Only $1,500!. Boom, bought it!

Holy shit sounds about right. I mean...I'm a purse addict, but ho...ly....shit.  No effing way.

Best refer her over to http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/antimustachian-wall-of-shame-and-comedy/6-women-$270-000-of-collective-debt/

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15208 on: October 06, 2016, 08:35:46 AM »
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15209 on: October 06, 2016, 08:46:22 AM »

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15210 on: October 06, 2016, 10:06:10 AM »
Low paid coworker (but two bachelor degrees) complains about their job (no degree required) and tight finances to me recently. I just let them talk, didn't stop them. Made some minor frugality suggestions.

They are paying just huge money for an apartment. Similar to my mortgage and we have a much nicer place to live.

We were paying half as much as their rent on our first home a few years back.

They could likely buy a starter house with smaller mortgage AND build a healthy emergency stash for the same as rent. LCOL area.

Complains about the job but wastes much time each day on FB and social media when they could be looking hard for another job online.

They are smart and efficient with their job. Just wasting money and time.

Guess they'll do something about it all when they are finally out of patience with their job/boss. I'm guessing another five years... ;)

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15211 on: October 06, 2016, 11:56:20 AM »
Man that would be the perfect time to try and sell her on one of those bookcases that when you pull on a fake book, it slides over and reveals a hidden room.  I so want one of those...
That's the one thing I'm having when I have more money than I can spend and am building my own house.

I actually know someone with that. You know what's in the secret room? Stacks of rubbermaid tubs up to the ceiling, full of holiday decorations. This is in addition to the basement full of stuff. It's a 5 bedroom, massive house, and they have probably 10x the amount of stuff I have. They are also probably the most quietly unhappy people I have the misfortune to know.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15212 on: October 06, 2016, 12:02:46 PM »
Man that would be the perfect time to try and sell her on one of those bookcases that when you pull on a fake book, it slides over and reveals a hidden room.  I so want one of those...
That's the one thing I'm having when I have more money than I can spend and am building my own house.

I actually know someone with that. You know what's in the secret room? Stacks of rubbermaid tubs up to the ceiling, full of holiday decorations. This is in addition to the basement full of stuff. It's a 5 bedroom, massive house, and they have probably 10x the amount of stuff I have. They are also probably the most quietly unhappy people I have the misfortune to know.

That's what I think of whenever I see a movie where there's a secret chamber. Another question I have is, "If it's so remote and secret, how the heck is it so pristine and clean?" I mean, if it's designed to not be noticed by anyone, who the hell constructed it and made sure that the engineered room doesn't collapse? Also, who cleans it because it likely isn't the homeowner and having servants know about it kinda defeats its purpose?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15213 on: October 06, 2016, 12:14:37 PM »
That's what I think of whenever I see a movie where there's a secret chamber. Another question I have is, "If it's so remote and secret, how the heck is it so pristine and clean?" I mean, if it's designed to not be noticed by anyone, who the hell constructed it and made sure that the engineered room doesn't collapse? Also, who cleans it because it likely isn't the homeowner and having servants know about it kinda defeats its purpose?

That's why your secret room should always lead down into caves with water dripping so it cleans itself

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15214 on: October 06, 2016, 12:30:24 PM »
That's why your secret room should always lead down into caves with water dripping so it cleans itself
Yep, its October, the month of hidden rooms and dripping caves.  Found one in Abbot and Costello Meet Frankenstein.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15215 on: October 06, 2016, 01:38:34 PM »
My purse is also worth approximately 1,500$.

Except it's huge, and I can fit a shit ton of stuff in there.

Like my snowboard.

And 4 people.

And it can take me across the country.

Oh wait, no, I mean my car; my car is worth approximately 1,500$.

This was fantastic.

I think my car is worth $2500

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15216 on: October 06, 2016, 02:01:51 PM »
My purse is also worth approximately 1,500$.

Except it's huge, and I can fit a shit ton of stuff in there.

Like my snowboard.

And 4 people.

And it can take me across the country.

Oh wait, no, I mean my car; my car is worth approximately 1,500$.

This was fantastic.

I think my car is worth $2500

Psshh... so what, that's like, not even half the value of a Chanel purse!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15217 on: October 06, 2016, 02:10:19 PM »
My purse is also worth approximately 1,500$.

Except it's huge, and I can fit a shit ton of stuff in there.

Like my snowboard.

And 4 people.

And it can take me across the country.

Oh wait, no, I mean my car; my car is worth approximately 1,500$.

This was fantastic.

I think my car is worth $2500

Psshh... so what, that's like, not even half the value of a Chanel purse!

Half the cost maybe.  Much more than half the value

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15218 on: October 06, 2016, 02:43:08 PM »
The new FLSA rules are causing some changes at my job. All the formerly salaried/exempt positions below the line are now transitioning to hourly/non-exempt. The challenge is that salaried staff are currently paid twice per month (24 pays per year) and hourly are paid every other week (26 pays per year). The transition in pay structure in December is going to cause the newly hourly folks to have their first hourly check be 'short' in the sense that it only covers one week rather than two and then they will have to wait two weeks for their first 'full' check. The company is offering an interest free loan if you'd like to request it to make up the difference. The loan will be paid back over the next 11 months in equal installments directly deducted from you check. Not an ideal situation, but trying to make the best of it.

People are losing their damn minds. Several are apparently bad at math and do not understand that they are in fact getting the same salary, but spread out across 26 pay checks rather than 24 means that each pay check is less. They are convinced that they are taking a pay cut. One guy has figured out that this means he will get three pay checks some months. However, he believes those 'extra' pay checks mean he will make more in 2017 than in 2016.

One woman burst into tears, convinced she will lose her house because of the short pay check challenge at the start. When reminded of the loan, she said she cannot possibly afford the rest of her paycheck's then being short for the next 11 months. Several people agreed with her that they are very worried about that as well.

I'm not that shocked so many people cannot handle having essentially less than half the pay check they are used too (I see their ridiculous spending habits frequently enough), but I'm still a little amazed I guess at the angst this is causing. I was also little surprised at how many people were unable to grasp the different between 24/26 pays and why their checks would be a different amount. Most of these people have master's degrees, all at least have a bachelors... did none of them take math?!

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15219 on: October 06, 2016, 03:27:31 PM »
People are losing their damn minds. Several are apparently bad at math and do not understand that they are in fact getting the same salary, but spread out across 26 pay checks rather than 24 means that each pay check is less. They are convinced that they are taking a pay cut...

People always get antsy when you mess with their paychecks.  It is nice that your company offered an interest-free loan for those that needed it.

We had the opposite happen (every other week Friday pay for salaried folks went to 15th and last) a few years ago.  Folks complained that they were taking a pay cut because they were getting fewer checks (completely ignoring the fact that each check was now bigger).   A bunch of folks complained because more taxes were taken out because the checks were a bigger amount, not understanding how taxes work. 

Funny thing is that everyone got a tiny raise to account for the loss of pay due to rounding.  $65K/26 = $2500 but $65K/24 = $2708.3333.  $2708.33 * 24 is only $64999.92.  That person should have had their salary adjusted to $65000.24 so they wouldn't be taking a pay cut.  But, since others got a de-facto increase due to rounding, they ended up giving everyone a buck or two extra for PR purposes.  Yet people still complained because they didn't understand the math.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15220 on: October 06, 2016, 03:31:52 PM »
People are losing their damn minds. Several are apparently bad at math and do not understand that they are in fact getting the same salary, but spread out across 26 pay checks rather than 24 means that each pay check is less.

I got excited when we made the transition from 24 to 26 pay periods per year. Think of the infinitesimal amount of extra interest I'll be earning on my money now! That will save me like 10 minutes in the cubicle farm. If it were an option, I'd actually prefer to be paid on the minute, every minute.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15221 on: October 06, 2016, 04:07:13 PM »
People are losing their damn minds. Several are apparently bad at math and do not understand that they are in fact getting the same salary, but spread out across 26 pay checks rather than 24 means that each pay check is less.

I got excited when we made the transition from 24 to 26 pay periods per year. Think of the infinitesimal amount of extra interest I'll be earning on my money now! That will save me like 10 minutes in the cubicle farm. If it were an option, I'd actually prefer to be paid on the minute, every minute.

Wouldn't that be an interesting societal concept....  Like sticking a card into a machine when you get to work, and having your hourly pay flow in once an hour (or more).

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15222 on: October 06, 2016, 04:16:11 PM »
People are losing their damn minds. Several are apparently bad at math and do not understand that they are in fact getting the same salary, but spread out across 26 pay checks rather than 24 means that each pay check is less.

I got excited when we made the transition from 24 to 26 pay periods per year. Think of the infinitesimal amount of extra interest I'll be earning on my money now! That will save me like 10 minutes in the cubicle farm. If it were an option, I'd actually prefer to be paid on the minute, every minute.

Wouldn't that be an interesting societal concept....  Like sticking a card into a machine when you get to work, and having your hourly pay flow in once an hour (or more).

Steady stream, in pennies, with an audio toggle that sounds like a constant slot machine payout.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15223 on: October 06, 2016, 04:51:34 PM »
Anyone else hear the craziest things while at work?

In early 2009, a colleague of mine called geographyteacher, told me he'd "figured out the stock market."  He has spent the last 7 years trying to time the market and feels he has done quite well for himself.  He does not know how to compare an annual return to a holding period return to a risk-adjusted return or how to benchmark his progress.  He just knows that "this guy in Omaha" was very successful at it.
Over the years of doing this, and telling everyone how good he is at it, he has asked me several questions that reveal his lack of knowledge.  For example, he didn't know what an SDRSP was and last week he asked me how to get all of his money out of his RRSP without paying any tax.  (Not a first time homebuyer or a student.)  The frustrating part is that when I answer these questions and he learns something new, he still never questions whether he is, in fact, an expert or if maybe, just maybe, there's other stuff he doesn't know too. 
So now he tells me that he has started taking money from other people and trading for them.  Since hes not an investment bank, people are just giving him money which he deposits into his own brokerage accounts to trade with.  I dont think he realizes he will have to declare the investment income himself.  (Alternatively, this might be why he asked me how to get money out of an RRSP, but if thats true, hes used up his contribution room for other people.)
Ive decided Im not going to say anything to him but I would intervene if I found out he was giving advice (or taking money from) any of our mutual colleagues.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15224 on: October 06, 2016, 06:32:36 PM »
Anyone else hear the craziest things while at work?

In early 2009, a colleague of mine called geographyteacher, told me he'd "figured out the stock market."  He has spent the last 7 years trying to time the market and feels he has done quite well for himself.  He does not know how to compare an annual return to a holding period return to a risk-adjusted return or how to benchmark his progress.  He just knows that "this guy in Omaha" was very successful at it.
Over the years of doing this, and telling everyone how good he is at it, he has asked me several questions that reveal his lack of knowledge.  For example, he didn't know what an SDRSP was and last week he asked me how to get all of his money out of his RRSP without paying any tax.  (Not a first time homebuyer or a student.)  The frustrating part is that when I answer these questions and he learns something new, he still never questions whether he is, in fact, an expert or if maybe, just maybe, there's other stuff he doesn't know too. 
So now he tells me that he has started taking money from other people and trading for them.  Since hes not an investment bank, people are just giving him money which he deposits into his own brokerage accounts to trade with.  I dont think he realizes he will have to declare the investment income himself.  (Alternatively, this might be why he asked me how to get money out of an RRSP, but if thats true, hes used up his contribution room for other people.)
Ive decided Im not going to say anything to him but I would intervene if I found out he was giving advice (or taking money from) any of our mutual colleagues.

Sounds like a ticking time bomb.  I agree with your plan to intervene, just be careful.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15225 on: October 06, 2016, 06:36:14 PM »
So now he tells me that he has started taking money from other people and trading for them.  Since hes not an investment bank, people are just giving him money which he deposits into his own brokerage accounts to trade with.  I dont think he realizes he will have to declare the investment income himself.  (Alternatively, this might be why he asked me how to get money out of an RRSP, but if thats true, hes used up his contribution room for other people.)
Ive decided Im not going to say anything to him but I would intervene if I found out he was giving advice (or taking money from) any of our mutual colleagues.

This sounds like a Ponzi scheme in the making.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15226 on: October 06, 2016, 06:40:08 PM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15227 on: October 06, 2016, 07:28:38 PM »
What geographyteacher is doing sounds (1) really dumb for himself and (2) super sketchy as it relates to the other people's money.  Wondering if it's even legal...

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15228 on: October 07, 2016, 07:03:20 AM »

This sounds like a Ponzi scheme in the making.

I sort of thought that too.  He's not a malicious person and he wouldn't do it intentionally, (and he probably doesn't know what a Ponzi is), but I could see him being unable to repay someone, using someone else's principle to cover it, and so it would begin.

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« Reply #15229 on: October 07, 2016, 07:05:28 AM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15230 on: October 07, 2016, 07:17:31 AM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

Not it sounds even more like a Ponzi sheme in the making

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15231 on: October 07, 2016, 07:18:21 AM »
What geographyteacher is doing sounds (1) really dumb for himself and (2) super sketchy as it relates to the other people's money.  Wondering if it's even legal...

I think the legal issues would boil down to minor tax fraud.  He's not actually selling securities directly to the public.  He's might be trading within his TFSA, and there have been some cases of the CRA "de-sheltering" TFSA income when the trading has been deemed to be business activity.  I'm sure he's also failing to report the "part of the income they let him keep for himself". 

As far as investment fraud, he wouldn't have actually lied to anyone by telling them he had education or certifications that he didn't have.  (He actually doesn't know what the Canadian Securities Course or the CFA designation is.)  He really believes he knows what he's doing and he has convinced other people he does as well. 

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« Reply #15232 on: October 07, 2016, 08:32:30 AM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

"But ... but he's an ELDER!!  He would NEVER rip us off!!"

It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed. 

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« Reply #15233 on: October 07, 2016, 08:49:57 AM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

Religion is the opiate of the masses, after all. Pretty sure over the course of human history more people have been murdered in the name of religion than for any other reason.

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« Reply #15234 on: October 07, 2016, 08:53:59 AM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

Religion is the opiate of the masses, after all. Pretty sure over the course of human history more people have been murdered in the name of religion than for any other reason.

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Re: Overheard at Work
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It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15236 on: October 07, 2016, 11:56:14 AM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15237 on: October 07, 2016, 12:00:46 PM »
Discussing miles driven on cars::

CW1: 'That's the one you drive a lot, right?'
CW2: 'Nah, we've had it 3yrs and only put 62k on it'
CW1: 'oh yeah, that's not much'

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15238 on: October 07, 2016, 12:04:47 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15239 on: October 07, 2016, 12:31:13 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Odin's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15240 on: October 07, 2016, 12:45:49 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Woden's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

FTFY

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15241 on: October 07, 2016, 12:51:15 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Woden's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

FTFY

Aren't Woden and Odin one and the same?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15242 on: October 07, 2016, 01:03:09 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Woden's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

FTFY

Aren't Woden and Odin one and the same?

I've always been unclear on that point honestly.  I just think Woden'sday is a better analog for Wednesday.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15243 on: October 07, 2016, 01:10:12 PM »
It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.
It's also amazing how people equate being Christian with being sheep, and being stupid and falling for scams.
+1 to both of these comments.

May Odin smite you all.

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Woden's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

FTFY

Aren't Woden and Odin one and the same?

Yes they are.  There are about 170 variations of this name. Standardized spelling is a fairly new concept.  Odin is a very old god.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15244 on: October 07, 2016, 01:51:37 PM »
The jury is out on whether Friday is Frey's, Freya's or Frigg's day. The fun part is that you have kept all the Nordic names, except for Saturday. In the Nordic languages this is the washing day (laugardagur), but you would rather watch the time go by? (Saturn = god of time).

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15245 on: October 07, 2016, 02:35:17 PM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

"But ... but he's an ELDER!!  He would NEVER rip us off!!"

It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

It's not altogether unusual to hear of church elders using the trust placed in them to secretly rip people off.  Two very recent examples in my life:
  • I'm an attorney and represented a contractor/architect who did a shit ton of work for a church that was planning to expand.  Pastor kept promising he would pay for the work.  Pastor never did pay and was lying to his congregation to get them to give him more money for it, meanwhile falsely badmouthing the architect/contractor.
  • There's an attorney I work with who told me some other folks in her church group recently discovered that their elder who handled accounting had been skimming a huge amount of the donations for himself.  He got fired and has to pay restitution, but I think the church has agreed not to pursue criminal charges.
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15246 on: October 07, 2016, 03:04:10 PM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

"But ... but he's an ELDER!!  He would NEVER rip us off!!"

It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

It's not altogether unusual to hear of church elders using the trust placed in them to secretly rip people off.  Two very recent examples in my life:
  • I'm an attorney and represented a contractor/architect who did a shit ton of work for a church that was planning to expand.  Pastor kept promising he would pay for the work.  Pastor never did pay and was lying to his congregation to get them to give him more money for it, meanwhile falsely badmouthing the architect/contractor.
  • There's an attorney I work with who told me some other folks in her church group recently discovered that their elder who handled accounting had been skimming a huge amount of the donations for himself.  He got fired and has to pay restitution, but I think the church has agreed not to pursue criminal charges.

That second one wouldn't be in Chicagoland, would it?

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15247 on: October 07, 2016, 03:08:17 PM »
Who are the idiots giving him money?! Everyone in this story is due a very rude awakening.

He said friends and family.  My understanding is that he is the only person in his family to have attended university and that he is an elder in his church.  People in his circles trust him and his judgment I guess.

"But ... but he's an ELDER!!  He would NEVER rip us off!!"

It's amazing how many people equate being Christian with being honest and are genuinely horrified when they get scammed.

It's not altogether unusual to hear of church elders using the trust placed in them to secretly rip people off.  Two very recent examples in my life:
  • I'm an attorney and represented a contractor/architect who did a shit ton of work for a church that was planning to expand.  Pastor kept promising he would pay for the work.  Pastor never did pay and was lying to his congregation to get them to give him more money for it, meanwhile falsely badmouthing the architect/contractor.
  • There's an attorney I work with who told me some other folks in her church group recently discovered that their elder who handled accounting had been skimming a huge amount of the donations for himself.  He got fired and has to pay restitution, but I think the church has agreed not to pursue criminal charges.

I posted in the family thread about my inlaws, but they are constantly being scammed by people who must be trustworthy because they are religious.  They lost 100k+ to a ponzi scheme that was marketed as investing in christian companies, they are in 'life leadership' which is a shitty MLM that mostly targets religious people.

I'm sure that these scams also target the non-religious, but there is a significant subset that specifically seeks out the very religious.  I think religious people in general (for better and for worse) have a lower threshold for who they will trust.  It makes sense, you have a tight knit community that is supposedly based on being a good person.  Infiltrate that and you suddenly have a ton of people to scam.  It doesn't make those people dumb or sheep, just trusting, which isn't a bad trait in many situations but when it comes to money suspicion can be a very good thing.

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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15248 on: October 07, 2016, 03:40:53 PM »
That second one wouldn't be in Chicagoland, would it?

No, southeast US.  When my friend joined the board, she asked, "Shouldn't we get an external audit?"  Apparently that's actually not a requirement for religious organizations, at least in our state, and the others all said, "No, no, elder dude has been doing the accounting for xx years, and he's really good with the numbers."  It's a very good thing my friend won out in the end and had that audit done...
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Re: Overheard at Work
« Reply #15249 on: October 07, 2016, 04:05:26 PM »

This made me remember how the words in English for the days of the week have pagan roots.  Many Norse.

Monday = Moon day
Tuesday = Tr's day
Wednesday = Odin's day
Thursday = Thor's day
Friday = Frigga's day
Saturday = Saturn's day
Sunday = Sun's day

4 days named after Norse gods, 1 Roman, 2 celestial.

That's all wrong, of course.  It goes like this:

Monday = One day
Tuesday = Two day
Wednesday = What day?
Thursday = Third day.  The THIRD DAY.