Wow, you beat me on the baby clothes! I thought I was doing well because I only spent $50 on the first year (got a ton of hand-me-downs, lucky me!)
My sister had the same struggles as you as she tried to find clothes for her daughter that were not all pink and purple. It's pretty ridiculous.
Yeah, I can't believe how little we've spent! This includes diapering too, since several cousins had cloth diapered their kids and were looking for someone to give the old diapers to.
I was also just thinking that our 9 month clothing is a little sparse and a cousin sent me a message yesterday to ask what size clothing she's in. The cousin's son is a month younger but way, way taller and he's moving into 12 month stuff. So she's sending me his 9 month clothing!
We've also benefited greatly from this being the first grandbaby on both sides. We didn't have to buy the bassinet, or the crib now (grandparents are making one!), or a high chair (grandparents made that too). We got all the baby stuff they saved from our childhoods (which we will, of course, save and pass along to siblings when/if they have kids). The grandmothers have both been super excited to get little clothes for her (mostly used, thank goodness). The grandma on my husband's side only had boys so she's RIDICULOUSLY excited to have the chance to buy girl items. :) We've talked her into toning down the pink.
The only reason our girl has been expensive at all was because of the medical bills. :)